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Can people who have low or no self-worth see the value in anybody else? Just curious.....

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Can people who have low or no self-worth see the value in anybody else? Just curious.....

 

They can and do, and in their eyes, just about everyone else is more valuable and too good for them. They rarely can develop emotional attachments to anyone in terms of a "romantic" relationship.

 

They are usually the ones who tell a woman that "I have nothing to offer you" or "why do you want a guy like me", etc.

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They can and do, and in their eyes, just about everyone else is more valuable and too good for them. They rarely can develop emotional attachments to anyone in terms of a "romantic" relationship.

 

They are usually the ones who tell a woman that "I have nothing to offer you" or "why do you want a guy like me", etc.

 

Thanks. I've noticed many times that people who don't respect or value themselves don't really see the value in others who associate with them. They seem to view others as valueless simply for wanting to associate with them.

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Thanks. I've noticed many times that people who don't respect or value themselves don't really see the value in others who associate with them. They seem to view others as valueless simply for wanting to associate with them.

 

As in a I-wouldn't-be-a-member-of-a-club-who-would-have-me kind of way? I can see that.

 

My experience was that I struggled so much that I actually developed a detrimental knee-jerk reaction anytime a woman's looks, personality, or combination triggered an involuntary adrenaline-filled flash of attraction in me. Instead of embracing it, I would mentally convince myself that if she caused that kind of response in me, a million other guys must also feel that way, and I would shut it down. Not recommended.

 

So, if a guy does this kind of thing, it's going to be difficult for any women he lets into his life inspire him.

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