She has been calling me, i am affraid to respond.

[Trauma_Luna]

NO!!!!!!! Frinkin HELL NO!!!!

 

 

You went over there and she shot you down again! And THEN you see a post from some douche rocket saying "I'm proud of you BABY!" No guy posts baby on someone's facebook page unless an intimate relationship exists! You told her that you saw stuff on her Facebook page and then OUT OF THE BLUE! This guy posts that (and I'm speculating that no one ever posted something like that before) right after you had your conversation with her?!?! Dollars to donuts, she called this asshat right after you left and told him everything that happened. Therefore, this guy KNEW you would be watching and sent that post to rub your nose in the fact that they have an intimate relationship. And now, she's blocked you on facebook. Just one last "screw you" before she blocked you. One last twist of the knife.

 

 

Screw her and screw that guy!

 

 

It's time to get your revenge! And the best revenge you can get is to lead a damn good an adventurous life. Start making positive changes! Go out into the world! Meet knew people and get new hobbies! Join a running club or cycling Club. Take dive lessons or flying lesson. TRAVEL! Go see the world! Think of a place that you've always wanted to see. Make a plan and save for it. That gives you something to focus on and something to look forward to. And once you have everything saved and planned, GO!!!

 

 

Go to Rome, or to London, or Sydney. Go to the Bahamas or Jamaica! Go to the Netherlands or Thailand! There's a big world out there! Go see it! And there are a lot beautiful girls out there to meet! Some would probably love to be your personal tour guide!

 

 

Dude, your life isn't over, it's just begun!

 

 

This is one of the best advices i have ever received, thanks in advance, just after i read it i started planning a trip to New York, but then again i fall in this endless circle of desperation and impotence, i have confirmed she's with someone else officially, or it's about to be. I want to feel motivated but i just can't, why is this so hard? how long will it last? i can't stand it.