contel3 Posted November 2, 2015 Posted November 2, 2015 I've been reading many posts on this forum where people describe dating people they're not really into for extended periods of times (six month, a year, even two years!). First of, that baffles me as I can't understand how you can stay with someone you're not crazy about for so long and also worries me, since I really don't want to be on the receiving end. So, how do you know you're Mr or Mrs right now? How do you guys act differently when you're not crazy about the person you're dating?
TheBathWater Posted November 2, 2015 Posted November 2, 2015 So, how do you know you're Mr or Mrs right now? How do you guys act differently when you're not crazy about the person you're dating? I don't know how people do it either. If I'm not crazy about someone, or at least don't see the potential to be crazy about someone, I won't see them or hookup with them for longer than a handful of dates. What's the point? I can't fake interest. If I'm with you, I want to be with you, and I have every intention of moving things forward (even if eventually). If I know for fact it has no potential and I'm not interested, I'm gone. Just last night I let go of someone who, as hot as she was, simply didn't do it for me.
TaraMaiden2 Posted November 2, 2015 Posted November 2, 2015 Shouldn't that be 'Miss Right Now'...? Unless you're in an agreed marriage of convenience with her, that is....
kendahke Posted November 2, 2015 Posted November 2, 2015 I've been reading many posts on this forum where people describe dating people they're not really into for extended periods of times (six month, a year, even two years!). First of, that baffles me as I can't understand how you can stay with someone you're not crazy about for so long and also worries me, since I really don't want to be on the receiving end. So, how do you know you're Mr or Mrs right now? How do you guys act differently when you're not crazy about the person you're dating? You know by how you're being treated. I act like a platonic friend with those in whom I have no romantic interest. I also don't waste their time by pretending or leading them to believe that my being there means he's got hope for something romantic developing. That's mean and unfair.
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