drallafi Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 It's 12:00 PM. She's in class and I'm trying like hell to not violate her request for time to think. I keep holding on to this frustration. How long does it take? At what point is it enough? Is all the waiting just going to lead to a crash? Am I wrong for not getting in front of this and saying goodbye? Dammit. I feel so damn helpless. I mean, after 5+ days of not hearing from her, it may be time to consider she's stringing you along. I think different people have different ideas of "be patient with me". It's easy to say when you're the one holding the cards, but when you're the one waiting on the sidelines for something anything... well every minute feels like an eternity. What you need to do is recognize your value as a man and just ask her to be straight up with you. If she wants you, then she needs to say so. If not, then it's time for you guys to go separate ways. Leaving someone you care about in ambiguity is cruel, and she needs to make up her mind before you make it up for her.
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