flower2 Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 I am even so afraid to check my e-mail. I have e-mail him on Sat. but today is already Tue. I am so afraid to check my e-mail. Do you think it is embarrassing that I e-mail him even though he is not my instructor anymore. we both liked each other. And I could feel like he liked me very much. But always there was something stopped him to go further. Mabybe because he is an instructor in the college, and that he can't date a student? Or he would rather wait for me until I finish my school? All the way, he was always so nice to me, and I could feel that he loved me. But why he acted so distant to me, sometimes. Like last time, he was standing by the door, where he could see my completely, when I truned my head, I saw him, but his head turned to the other way. It seemed like he wasn't looking at me... Why he did this? I have been waiting for his e-mail for a coupld of days. Do you think he will e-mail me back? He usually e-mail me very quick when I was his student. Now,he always is slow. I don't know why? Can you give me your opinions? Thank you!
flower2 Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 I never actually date him. because I am so afraid, and I don't even know what did he think. Poor thing.
noname Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Originally posted by readmore I am even so afraid to check my e-mail. I have e-mail him on Sat. but today is already Tue. I am so afraid to check my e-mail. Do you think it is embarrassing that I e-mail him even though he is not my instructor anymore. we both liked each other. And I could feel like he liked me very much. But always there was something stopped him to go further. Mabybe because he is an instructor in the college, and that he can't date a student? Or he would rather wait for me until I finish my school? All the way, he was always so nice to me, and I could feel that he loved me. But why he acted so distant to me, sometimes. Like last time, he was standing by the door, where he could see my completely, when I truned my head, I saw him, but his head turned to the other way. It seemed like he wasn't looking at me... Why he did this? I have been waiting for his e-mail for a coupld of days. Do you think he will e-mail me back? He usually e-mail me very quick when I was his student. Now,he always is slow. I don't know why? Can you give me your opinions? Thank you! uhhh... not an opinion but a fact... many or most instructors have a fraternization clause within their contracts or terms of employment, that if violated could lose them their jobs and hurt their chances of emploment in the same field. there are a great deal of other situations and circumstances that come to mind, but losing my source of income and being blacklisted would make me kinda wary of embarking upon an extracurricular relationship...
haywood Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 talk to him about it or move on. there's no point of waiting. find out somehow. maybe email him with your questions. if there's no reply then forget him. why make yourself suffer? good luck.
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