lemonadekiwi Posted November 1, 2015 Posted November 1, 2015 (edited) I've been a complete mess recently. I need a smack in the face. My bf and i have been together about 2 years now, living together. Long story short, he always had this friend i was always uncomfortable with. He told me they dated for a week, didn't work and were just friends. I found out from his friends that actually... They have a weird dependant friendship where they were on/off on/off pretend it never happened til the next time. Will they wont they finally be official but never came to it. But for years. He admitted it to be true. I've never met her either and I always wanted to. Always an excuse not to be able to. She's a best friend but kept separate from everyone else. Always insisted platonic now, he doesn't wanna be with her but she's very important to him. just last week, I found he had screenshotted pics of her on his phone of her, edited them to remove her friends and zoomed in on her. All posey, sexy photos. He also arranged to meet her soon and didn't tell me. I felt sick, seeing all these photos. When I confronted him about it... He put his hands up and cut ties immediately. His suggestion. I should be happy he made that step and I am relieved. But last night (day after he cut ties) I got drunk and upset about it all and said some mean things. Embaressed him as we were out with his friends. I feel terrible. But I think I'm still hurt from those photos. What's wrong with me? Edited November 1, 2015 by lemonadekiwi Update
meeji Posted November 1, 2015 Posted November 1, 2015 Sounds like his heart is split in two. I would not be okay with my bf acting like it's that easy to drop this girl. If it was, whatever they have wouldn't have gotten this far. It's not over until the fat lady sings. If I were you, I would separate from him and give him time to figure out what he wants while I figure out how much BS I'm willing to deal with. He hid those relationship details from you for years... what else is he hiding or planning to hide in the future. For me, that's a deal breaker. Nothing is wrong with you. You have every right to be upset.
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