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I made an OKC account a few days ago. So far I have actually racked quite a few likes (320ish~) and 250+ visits in the last three days. The thing is, out of all these people who liked and visited, only like 50 messaged? Why do guys like your profile and doesn't message you? I understand if they do it through Quickmatch, but like 250 of them actually visited the profile. Some of them are really cute too!

 

 

Also some of the guys told me they think I am really cute, but then when I message them back..they didn't reply even though they are online?

 

I don't message every guy back, but I do message the ones I think is good looking or have an awesome profile (similar personality as me)

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I made an OKC account a few days ago. So far I have actually racked quite a few likes (320ish~) and 250+ visits in the last three days. The thing is, out of all these people who liked and visited, only like 50 messaged? Why do guys like your profile and doesn't message you? I understand if they do it through Quickmatch, but like 250 of them actually visited the profile. Some of them are really cute too!

 

 

Also some of the guys told me they think I am really cute, but then when I message them back..they didn't reply even though they are online?

 

I don't message every guy back, but I do message the ones I think is good looking or have an awesome profile (similar personality as me)

 

perhaps many of them are not real people, but bots?

 

also, figure guys on there have likely not received messages from genuine women either (genuine as in a worthwhile personality), so they just do "mass messaging", because they know they likely won't get a response.

 

How old are you? You don't sound too old because you openly say that you go for the good looking guys.

 

That is something women normally outgrow as they realize there is a lot more to a guy than what he looks like.

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Why don't you message a few of the guys you're interested in?

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They're using the quick match "like/don't like" feature on their cell phone that uses swipes. They swiped your picture to the like column. Doesn't mean they're necessarily going to contact you. It just means they like your picture.

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