pap1000 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 I am talking with a girl every day,she responds in all my texts fast,with emotions hearts,when i call her she talks to me sweet.But when i asked her out few times she told me that she is busy and she will let me know when she will be free to meet me.Why she is avoid me?she is not into me?
meeji Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Wait a week and ask her out again but stop contacting her. As a female, I can say that for me, relentless texting starts to kill my attraction for a guy. If we see each other regularly in between it is better but I try to save texting for making plans. Wait a week, leave her alone ask her out and if she says she will let you know move on. She'll probably never let you know...but leave the door open.
Author pap1000 Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 Ok, but if she doesn’t want to go out with me, why she leaves open door for a date?
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Do you know her IRL or is she somebody you "met" OL? IRL you have better ability to judge if she's genuinely busy. If OL, she may have no intention to meet because she's scared or whatever but she is too meek to come out & say it plus it will make the calls & texts she does like stop. She may be a game player.
Author pap1000 Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 What means IRL OR OL?I don't want to judge ,am wonder,she dont scares,because she know me.
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 OL -- on line IRL in real life. There is a FAQ page on here that tells you what basic abbreviations mean. You can also look them up through any search engine.
Siquijor Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Ask her out once more. She could be playing hard to get or she could be stringing you along, you don't know. If nothing positive transpires after this, move on.
katiegrl Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 She has no desire to actually meet you, or any man. She is seeking various texting buddies (you are probably one of many), she most likely has a boyfriend ....and just needs some extra attention. Fairly common actually....
xcupid Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Do you know her IRL or is she somebody you "met" OL? IRL you have better ability to judge if she's genuinely busy. If OL, she may have no intention to meet because she's scared or whatever but she is too meek to come out & say it plus it will make the calls & texts she does like stop. She may be a game player. or...you may be good for boosting her low self esteem with all of the attention you give her but she has no intention of ever meeting you or getting to know you. 1
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