Reitteg813 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Anyone know why girls start posting so much and acting different on social media after ending things with a guy? Me and this girl had been seeing each other for just 2 months, kissed every time we hung out, no sex yet, texted me every single day, non stop, we hung out, until eventually she decided the compatibility wasn't there, and now she's posted 3 times in the past 24 hours. Normally she posts about once a week. In sure she's trying to get something across. I know this is a stupid thing to think about but still...makes me think what's going through their heads.
pidgeon1010 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 No one can tell you why. She is probably just moving on and living her life. I doubt she is trying to send you any "code" messages. The question should be why are you still stalking her on social media and tracking how often she posts? Delete her and move on with your life.
TheLoveBelow92 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Anyone know why girls start posting so much and acting different on social media after ending things with a guy? Me and this girl had been seeing each other for just 2 months, kissed every time we hung out, no sex yet, texted me every single day, non stop, we hung out, until eventually she decided the compatibility wasn't there, and now she's posted 3 times in the past 24 hours. Normally she posts about once a week. In sure she's trying to get something across. I know this is a stupid thing to think about but still...makes me think what's going through their heads. My ex did the same after a month of the break up and thought to much about it. Posting things like "Its not the person you miss at 2am when your lonely, Its all about the person at 2pm when your busy" Its 4 months for me its only recently I started letting go, because I have to. If I knew then what I know now.. Its just the way she deals with it, maybe she is hurt and it helps, but you have to just help yourself. hope this helps somewhat
Author Reitteg813 Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 My ex did the same after a month of the break up and thought to much about it. Posting things like "Its not the person you miss at 2am when your lonely, Its all about the person at 2pm when your busy" Its 4 months for me its only recently I started letting go, because I have to. If I knew then what I know now.. Its just the way she deals with it, maybe she is hurt and it helps, but you have to just help yourself. hope this helps somewhat She's not posting quotes, it just Instagram. But still, like I said she usually only posts once every 1-2 weeks sometimes, 2 times a week, but she's posted 3 times in the past 13 hours. Might not mean a single thing, but I also doubt it's just a coincidence that she's posting it 2 days after we ended things.
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 If your relationship is over IRL severe all social media contacts too. If you stop following her on IG you will never see what she is doing & it won't bother you
TheLoveBelow92 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 (edited) She's not posting quotes, it just Instagram. But still, like I said she usually only posts once every 1-2 weeks sometimes, 2 times a week, but she's posted 3 times in the past 13 hours. Might not mean a single thing, but I also doubt it's just a coincidence that she's posting it 2 days after we ended things. This was instagram too, Just dont overthink things man, just leave things as they lie and take things at face value People can be hurt on both sides and show it in diffrent ways, they are never easy Edited October 31, 2015 by TheLoveBelow92 Edit
Author Reitteg813 Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 This was instagram too, Just dont overthink things man, just leave things as they lie and take things at face value People can be hurt on both sides and show it in diffrent ways, they are never easy Yeah, she may be having a tough time too and is trying to cover that up by posting all this stuff. Cause to be honest I'm doing the same thing lol. I posted something, not going to go into detail about what it was, and then she posted 10 minutes later.... I feel like I'm in high school all over again lol
Author Reitteg813 Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 And now she's reading all my snapchat stories as well....
louxor Posted November 1, 2015 Posted November 1, 2015 My ex did the same thing with instagram (and probably still is), it's just her personal way of coping. For the whole time I've know her, her instagram has always been a completely different representation of her actual life. She was the type of girl who would upload a photo from a month or couple of week ago if she didnt have a fresh one. I personally never understood this, but it made her happy and boosted her confidence so all the better to her. Basically, keeping all this in mind, her 'instagram life' would always look way more fun and exciting than the reality. Her instagram might show her outside in the sun looking hot as hell in some amazing bikini, smiling, seemling like her life is amazing. In actualitly however, she just wanted a new picture to upload along with a confidence boost, so she took the photo, probably tanned in the sun for half a hour, then went back to her actual life. I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't take her social media updates to mean anything more than her way of dealing with the situation. Personally, I took my ex's rise in instagram posts after our break up as a sign that she was actually struggling and missing my attention, so she turned to another source to try and find it.
Author Reitteg813 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Posted November 1, 2015 My ex did the same thing with instagram (and probably still is), it's just her personal way of coping. For the whole time I've know her, her instagram has always been a completely different representation of her actual life. She was the type of girl who would upload a photo from a month or couple of week ago if she didnt have a fresh one. I personally never understood this, but it made her happy and boosted her confidence so all the better to her. Basically, keeping all this in mind, her 'instagram life' would always look way more fun and exciting than the reality. Her instagram might show her outside in the sun looking hot as hell in some amazing bikini, smiling, seemling like her life is amazing. In actualitly however, she just wanted a new picture to upload along with a confidence boost, so she took the photo, probably tanned in the sun for half a hour, then went back to her actual life. I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't take her social media updates to mean anything more than her way of dealing with the situation. Personally, I took my ex's rise in instagram posts after our break up as a sign that she was actually struggling and missing my attention, so she turned to another source to try and find it. Yeah sounds about right. Even the caption on her pics. Saturday morning, she posts a pic from Friday night with the caption saying, "So about last night..." As if something crazy happened, meanwhile she had her damn mom pick her up from the bars last week...
louxor Posted November 1, 2015 Posted November 1, 2015 Yeah sounds about right. Even the caption on her pics. Saturday morning, she posts a pic from Friday night with the caption saying, "So about last night..." As if something crazy happened, meanwhile she had her damn mom pick her up from the bars last week... Yep exactly - Seems like a similar thing to what my ex would do. You should unfollow her though because even if you know that the photos are not a 100% reflection of reality, they still won't do you any good when you see them.
Author Reitteg813 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Posted November 1, 2015 Delete-block. Today. A bit difficult to do now. Plus I'd like for her to give it a second chance. But I guess that doesn't affect social media, still has my number
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