Bunni Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Just curious why guys seek out ex girlfriends frequently after a relationship is done done for a long time done? I have many ex's that make frequent visits to my place of work. Is it a comfort thing? Or how could it be since all my past relationships were over 6 years ago. Why really do men do this? Should it be flattering for me or do all guys (or most) do this and Y?
scarlyjones Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 That depends,................do you work at a Strip Joint? ....lol....sorry that was a joke. But Im curious...why do they come up to your WORK to see you?
westernxer Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 What kind of comforts are they seeking? And where the hell do you work?
FolderWife Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Did you dump them and say you want to stay "friends"? That would be my only guess....
Craig Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Originally posted by Bunni Just curious why guys seek out ex girlfriends frequently after a relationship is done done for a long time done? I have many ex's that make frequent visits to my place of work. Is it a comfort thing? Or how could it be since all my past relationships were over 6 years ago. Why really do men do this? Should it be flattering for me or do all guys (or most) do this and Y? It depends. Every couple of years or so I have lunch with an ex GF. We shared a lot together, had a very good-goodbye and I think we genuinely care about each other but recognize that we were/are too different in what we want to have made a life together. Some other GF's I've never seen again. Every so often I talk to another ex GF on the phone, this was not only a very good-goodbye but one of those "beautiful goodbye" situations. Again, we split because we had different goals that weren't compatible. Maybe it's a compliment to you that you have ex BF's coming around after years of breaking up.
Naive Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 I think that most of the time is the familiarity with that person. It makes you feel nice to see someone from your past, specially if they were special to you
st8toftheheart Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Originally posted by Bunni Just curious why guys seek out ex girlfriends frequently after a relationship is done done for a long time done? I have many ex's that make frequent visits to my place of work. Is it a comfort thing? Or how could it be since all my past relationships were over 6 years ago. Why really do men do this? Should it be flattering for me or do all guys (or most) do this and Y? Some of them just like to see if you are better off or worse off than when you were with them. Giving them an ego boost. Esepcially if they are not with anyone or sometimes if they are with somone and they want to see which of the two is doing better.
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