Winesar21 Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 Boyfriend broke up with me over email after dating for a little over a year and a half. He was the most amazing guy to me and supported me through a job loss and health problems. I believe I became too much for him even though he said I wasn't and he would always worry about me. He said in his email we should cease contact and he would like to get together in a few weeks. I went into histerics and sent him so many emails. He immediately blocked my number. He said he couldn't bear to see me hurt since he cared about me. He is very non confrontational. I think I blew it with the emails. He told me we would always be friends numerous times in the last. I can't deal with this. I am at my breaking point. I spent every night with this person. I have begun to hate myself my work is suffering.
d0nnivain Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 Don't hate yourself. Do recognize that the e-mails did make a bad situation worse. However, have some dignity. Why would you chase after somebody who was so cold as to dump you over freaking e-mail after a 1.5 year relationship? You deserve more consideration then that. Start thinking about what a complete jerk he was for doing that! Take some stock in your life. Give yourself at least the weekend to grieve & mourn. Drown your sorrows in Halloween candy. Then take care to do your job. You can cry in your car at lunch if you must but don't get yourself fired. Closure comes from within. It will come in time. Hang in there. 2
mightycpa Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 He said in his email we should cease contact and he would like to get together in a few weeks.He was half right. The bolded half. Go with that, and stick with it.
Royals550 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 I've learned the way people break up says a lot about them as a person, a few weeks from now you'll be able to see this from a different perspective. If they can just leave like that at a moments notice, rather now then in the middle of a marriage. Sounds like you lucked out. Don't beat yourself up about the emails, who cares if you went a little haywire..nothing wrong with being human and expressing your love. Go full no contact, it's in his wishes. When they ask for space, go full astronaut. How's that for space. You got this! 1
ExpatInItaly Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Broke up in an email, after 1.5 years? This guy is a piece of work. Don't worry about the emails you sent in return- you didn't blow anything, given that he'd already ended it. My advice is not to meet up with him in a few weeks. What's the point of that? 1
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