bmajor Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 I finally ended a one year relationship with my ex boyfriend on the 16th. He was wonderful to me. I loved him very much, but continually caught him in lies as well as him always deleting texts and emails. I'd already broken up with before for doing the same thing. He'd make promises and genuinely seemed to be changing for the better. But then another lie surfaced on the 16th. Anyway I've followed the no contact rule but he emailed me today simply saying I love you. I want soooo badly to respond but only no you don't idiot. PLEASE HELP ME!
frigginlost Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 You don't lie to those you love. Think of it that way and don't respond. 2
d0nnivain Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 You know if you go back it will be more of the same. Delete the email & block him. It's as simple as that. What you can't see won't make you long for more. Try to remember that his ILY is probably a lie too. Sorry 1
Author bmajor Posted October 31, 2015 Author Posted October 31, 2015 Thank you both so so much! Just the few shared words helped more than you know. I need to be reminded that i made the right decision. It's a constant mind game being played in my head... I never responded to the email. Successful in blocking his number but email won't allow blocking. Either way NC in full affect. Thank you again! I need the encouragement!
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