Hella Lost Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 So yesterday, I had to went to a job site that I'll be working at for the next week and a half. Theres this fine woman who works there, & we must have made eye contact maybe a dozen different times. My first problem is that, does this mean she's interested in me? Next, if she is, I have a problem with being terribly shy lately, and haven't been in the game for a year after my failed relationships with various girls. I also never make the first move. Help me gain my confidence!
d0nnivain Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 Spend some time thinking about your own good qualities. Psych yourself up before work. Do some visualization exercises. See yourself talking to her & it going well. Do your job well & be professional. Join in if everyone is going out after work. Be friendly to her. See where it goes from there.
lilmissjava Posted October 30, 2015 Posted October 30, 2015 If you have no expectations by approaching her, it helps. She may just think because you're a guy, you should be making the first move. I believe lots of eye contact definitely translates into interest. You really don't have much to lose if you just say "Hello".
Author Hella Lost Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 If you have no expectations by approaching her, it helps. She may just think because you're a guy, you should be making the first move. I believe lots of eye contact definitely translates into interest. You really don't have much to lose if you just say "Hello". I usually don't make the first move. I like girls who are talkative and ask me million questions. She seems shy, like me. Maybe I should make a move, but damn, its been 5 days just staring at each other lol. Won't it be kinda awkward? I might do it on friday, my last day there.
Glitters Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 You shy + she shy = staring match:p So it doesn't matter if you approach her or not. You both are going to sit across a table and look at each other's eyes anyway Well, it has to be difficult for you since girls come to you and here you have to go. Good Luck !!
oberkeat Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 So yesterday, I had to went to a job site that I'll be working at for the next week and a half. Theres this fine woman who works there, & we must have made eye contact maybe a dozen different times. My first problem is that, does this mean she's interested in me? Next, if she is, I have a problem with being terribly shy lately, and haven't been in the game for a year after my failed relationships with various girls. I also never make the first move. Help me gain my confidence! Women's "signals" are a myth. I've had women stare at me, strike up a conversation with me, touch me, and other such 'signals,' only to find out that she was married. The only way to know if a woman wants to date you is if you ask her out and she says 'yes'. Everything else means nothing.
Author Hella Lost Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 Yeah it sucks not knowing whats up with her. But when the other day she passed me and was singing that song "hey Mickey you're so fine, you blow my mind.." Another girl asked "why are you singing that?" she said it was an inside joke. Lol so idk if it was about me.
oberkeat Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Yeah it sucks not knowing whats up with her. But when the other day she passed me and was singing that song "hey Mickey you're so fine, you blow my mind.." Another girl asked "why are you singing that?" she said it was an inside joke. Lol so idk if it was about me. You aren't accomplishing anything by guessing. I know approaching is hard. I'm working on getting better at it myself. But if you can't even strike up and carry on a conversation with a woman, nothing will happen.
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