JonClark Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 This girl is driving me nuts! I live abroad, but we've been dating for a while. Suddenly, she's cold and tells me that it's a bad idea to keep dating, because when I leave I'll be back in a year (which is true). She says it'll never work out when I live in another country. However, we agree on taking things slow, when I'm in the country, we can date, when I'm not, we're free. I told her this and she went along. A week later, I texted her if she'd wanna hang out, but she told me 'it was a bad idea, because it always ends romantically.' She then adds that she 'doesn't know what to do and that the situation is ****ed up.' I ignore the message and proceed to live my life for the next couple of weeks. Due to business situations, I extend my stay a couple of weeks. She hears about it from our mutual friend and asks to meet up. We meet up and she flirts like CRAZY. Never has she acted this interested. Never. So I ask her out for drinks, but she's cold again and declines my offer, telling me 'I told you I was visiting family this weekend, did you forget? You know how important family is to me.' She seemed pretty irritated. WTF is wrong with this girl? When we meet, I feel she likes me and we have amazing chemistry, but then when we're away from each other, she acts cold, irritated and mad. Can any of you girls tell me what's bothering her?
Zippy2000 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 You got to ask the question how yoo are to her. You ignored her message and no wonder she is hot abd cold. This is going to end badly. You live abroad. She tells you it wont work. Listen to her. Shes probably right.
Siquijor Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Who cares what's bothering her! It's not worth finding out. Forget her! It's bad enough having a woman acting in this way who lives locally, but one living in a different country? You'd be crazy pursuing this woman IMO.
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