lemonadekiwi Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 I saw he screenshotted photos on his computer. They are of his on/off girl he used to get with/now best friend. And another girl he added on FB that hangs out with her. They are all posey sexy photos from FB. Always worried he still liked this girl, now I find that and he's kept these screenshots. I don't know what to think or do? Is this normal?
walkingonair Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Don't initiate contact with him starting.....NOW!
Author lemonadekiwi Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 Don't initiate contact with him starting.....NOW! Forgot to mention I'm living with him and been together around 2 years
walkingonair Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Forgot to mention I'm living with him and been together around 2 years Ignore him and don't be affectionate he'll get the hint that something is wrong and then he might ask you and you then tell him.
Hopeless1984 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 They could be old and maybe he forgot about them. Some people like to keep pictures of good times they had. Just for memories. I wouldn't jump to conclusions. Ask him 1
Author lemonadekiwi Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 They're not photos he took of memories of them. He screenshotted them from recent photos of them on their Facebook profiles.
h0000 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Best case he just sees them like porn Worse case he has feelings for them/fancies them Either one I don't like...
LoveRefreshed Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Ignore him and don't be affectionate he'll get the hint that something is wrong and then he might ask you and you then tell him. Terrible advice. Do not ignore him and wait for him to realize something is wrong... could be waiting a long time. Be direct and tell him you are concerned.
PegNosePete Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Terrible advice. Do not ignore him and wait for him to realize something is wrong... could be waiting a long time. Be direct and tell him you are concerned. QFT. Do not be passive-aggressive. Ask him why he has those photos and tell him how they make you feel. If he has any compassion/respect, he will voluntarily and willingly delete them.
perol Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Ignore him and don't be affectionate he'll get the hint that something is wrong and then he might ask you and you then tell him. Sorry this is a bad way to communicate. You got a problem, be upfront about it, don't play the immature childish "silent treatment figure out why I'm pissed off" game.
Httm Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Ignore him and don't be affectionate he'll get the hint that something is wrong and then he might ask you and you then tell him. What kind of gamey, childish nonsense is this? 2 years and living together. If it bothers you, talk to him about it like an adult. 1
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