getsmartie Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Hi LS, I've been a lurker here for awhile but I've never posted so this will be my first. Firstly, hello to all. By BF and me have been together for almost 18 months and everything is great. But there's something he said to me this morning that has been bothering me. I'm a personal trainer and actually I also train him 2x a week (a perk for him). Anyhow, he told me last night that he may not be able to make it in for this morning's session because he had to take care of car issue. He did not cancel so I rushed my client before him so that I would be in time for my next client (BF). I don't like to keep anyone waiting for their appointment. Anyhow, I finished stretching the man before him and waiting for about 10 mins and sent him a text asking if he was on his way. His response was nope that he was still waiting for the car shop to which I responded that he should have let his trainer know and that I rushed my last client for him and I would have taken extra time with him if I had known. His response was that it was ok and that this other male client of mine is always well looked after. This other male client I've been training for many years and we have become friends so I think perhaps he may be a tad jealous although I've never seen him outwardly act jealous. I was not happy with that text. I asked him what exactly is he inferring and he said he was just joking. He is a very serious guy (not jokey). I have not responded back. I am still a bit peeved at that and don't know what to make of that!
deadelvis Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 well... is there any reason he should feel jealous of your relationship with the other client?
Author getsmartie Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 Yes and no..... Let me explain. I'm a fit and good looking woman so quite a few of my male clients have developed "crushes" on me. It's part of the territory...I spend my days in tights. Having said that, other than being friendly back I am careful with respecting boundaries and this client has never crossed any boundaries other than to look at me perhaps a little longer than a glance. Again, nothing inappropriate. Perhaps, he's picked up that vibe...dunno what else. I adore my BF, and am liberal with affection and telling him how much he means so it's not like he's being ignored.
deadelvis Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Are you attracted to the client? I mean... if you were single would you consider dating him? Sleeping with him? Is he hot? Your boyfriend may be more intuitive than you give him credit for. If he shows up every time when this client is ending his session, he may have observed some flirting and inappropriate behavior which has given him reason for concern.
Author getsmartie Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 Are you attracted to the client? I mean... if you were single would you consider dating him? Sleeping with him? Is he hot? Your boyfriend may be more intuitive than you give him credit for. If he shows up every time when this client is ending his session, he may have observed some flirting and inappropriate behavior which has given him reason for concern. No I'm not. He's a nice guy and we laugh quite a bit. I'm friendly because it's who I am and also part of my job. I did ask him to clarify. I wanted to know if he feels I'm being inappropriate and he said no I'm not and it was a joke. Just a gut feeling there's more he's not saying.
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