Jonah Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Anguish brings people to support sites so it's not so surprising to see the wounded doves posts. I'm wondering if there are any that actually made something of being the OW... OM, if your needs were met without huge drama and why you feel its mutually beneficial long term. 1
goodyblue Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Anguish brings people to support sites so it's not so surprising to see the wounded doves posts. I'm wondering if there are any that actually made something of being the OW... OM, if your needs were met without huge drama and why you feel its mutually beneficial long term. Well... I married my fMM so there's that. 1
Got it Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Yes I was satisfied for the most part during the affair, definitely didn't feel like how others seem to feel but I am very high maintenance wouldn't have accepted less. We are married now and currently quite happy with him. 2
cocorico Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Anguish brings people to support sites so it's not so surprising to see the wounded doves posts. I'm wondering if there are any that actually made something of being the OW... OM, if your needs were met without huge drama and why you feel its mutually beneficial long term. No huge drama. Needs were met throughout the R, and it never felt "wounding". It was certainly mutually beneficial - we're all a lot happier now. The kids have grown and become happy, successful young adults. The xBW has largely faded into history and mostly ceased to be a nuisance. He and I are happily M and thankful every day to be together. His family are still thrilled, especially as his parents get older and frailer, to have him back to his proper self, and back in the family. So it's all good!
Minnie09 Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 I appreciate MM in my life, and like my situation the way it is. I'm not ready for commitment. Will it go on like this forever? Probably not. Will he D? Maybe. I'm not holding my breath. Or will I be replaced? I doesn't look like it, we both seem pretty happy with the way our life is right now. So all is good, but I'm bracing myself for a future heartbreak. Not because I'm doubtful, just because I hear many horror stories about As going wrong for many reasons. 1
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