apuurboo Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Sometimes she acts like she likes me, sometimes she doesn’t show interest / ignores me. One day I stopped communication altogether to see what happens. A few days later she called to ask why am I not calling / texting her? We went on a date last week. It went well. But I sent her two romantic sms two separate days. In the last sms I wrote some lovely things and at the end I asked, “How are you going to take me in your life”? she didn’t reply to none of my sms. When I asked why she said she didn’t know what to say that’s why didn’t respond. However, she knocks me on facebook although not every time she is online. I don’t send her fb-msg unless she sends me fb-msg first. I genuiunely like her. She is different. What should I do? Is she playing hard to get? I shouldn’t show too much eagerness, right? Should I clearly ask if she is interested in me? I think If I ask “why” too often then she might think I’m charging her. If I call her then she talks amicably for a long long time but she doesn’t call me spontaneously.
CalvinM Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 That's an incredibly awkward thing to ask someone in person, nevermind over text. What sort of answer were you expecting, a declaration of her love?
Author apuurboo Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 That's an incredibly awkward thing to ask someone in person, nevermind over text. What sort of answer were you expecting, a declaration of her love? This is the sms that I sent to her, "If I had a star for every minute you crossed my mind, I would own a galaxy. It seems right now that all I’ve ever done in my life is making my way here to you. Every step I have taken, since I was that little boy, was to bring me closer to you. So here I am! How are you going to take me in your life"? Do you think it was bizarre?
todreaminblue Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 This is the sms that I sent to her, "If I had a star for every minute you crossed my mind, I would own a galaxy. It seems right now that all I’ve ever done in my life is making my way here to you. Every step I have taken, since I was that little boy, was to bring me closer to you. So here I am! How are you going to take me in your life"? Do you think it was bizarre? its pretty full on...your message is intense...,maybe words are not what she appreciates anyway, sometimes actions speak volumes more than words...... i am guessing you havent known her long......if this is the case your message might just have been over the top.....deb
Stillits Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 I would have to say that that is a little bizarre - or would have been to me. It doesn't sound like you are really in a relationship but are just dating, right? I'd honestly probably cringe a little bit if an established boyfriend sent me such a text. It's just too intense, and especially for the situation you have painted for us. 1
hippychick3 Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 After one date, or 20, that's too intense. You're coming on too strong and possibly making her uncomfortable. It sounds like there's interest there since she did contact you after a few days of not hearing from you. I think you need to tone it way down and slow down.
Buddhist Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Sometimes she acts like she likes me, sometimes she doesn’t show interest / ignores me. One day I stopped communication altogether to see what happens. A few days later she called to ask why am I not calling / texting her? We went on a date last week. It went well. But I sent her two romantic sms two separate days. In the last sms I wrote some lovely things and at the end I asked, “How are you going to take me in your life”? she didn’t reply to none of my sms. When I asked why she said she didn’t know what to say that’s why didn’t respond. However, she knocks me on facebook although not every time she is online. I don’t send her fb-msg unless she sends me fb-msg first. I genuiunely like her. She is different. What should I do? Is she playing hard to get? I shouldn’t show too much eagerness, right? Should I clearly ask if she is interested in me? I think If I ask “why” too often then she might think I’m charging her. If I call her then she talks amicably for a long long time but she doesn’t call me spontaneously. The current generation and their general cluelessness about actually relating to another person. One does not conduct a relationship via txt and facebook. WTF is this? 1
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