Kristine Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Really I haven't had a good marriage, every time a man comes into my life it's destructive. Already my life is gaining momentum. Things are improving, and I just don't understand why men drag me down each and every time. I got a job offer today. Yeah! Better than the one I was initially put in for! A friend is going to a concert in a few weeks with her husband, a band from our youth that I enjoy and told my soon to ex I wanted to see. So I've got a couple girl friends I've asked, reserved the hotel, and it should be a blast! I'm figuring out other areas of my life as well. Things are really going smoothly. My health is even improving! I started taking vitamins yesterday, D, B, etc. I'm so happy with the Mirena IUD, so happy, I did not end up pregnant by this SOB. Despite the 1 child I have, I did have 2, and even the OB says I'm super fertile for my age still (41). So the relief I have is just HUGE! I'm not sure how much longer I'm stuck on this planet, but I'm having a good day today so I'm going to relish in it. 2
kilgore Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Really I haven't had a good marriage, every time a man comes into my life it's destructive. Already my life is gaining momentum. Things are improving, and I just don't understand why men drag me down each and every time. I got a job offer today. Yeah! Better than the one I was initially put in for! A friend is going to a concert in a few weeks with her husband, a band from our youth that I enjoy and told my soon to ex I wanted to see. So I've got a couple girl friends I've asked, reserved the hotel, and it should be a blast! I'm figuring out other areas of my life as well. Things are really going smoothly. My health is even improving! I started taking vitamins yesterday, D, B, etc. I'm so happy with the Mirena IUD, so happy, I did not end up pregnant by this SOB. Despite the 1 child I have, I did have 2, and even the OB says I'm super fertile for my age still (41). So the relief I have is just HUGE! I'm not sure how much longer I'm stuck on this planet, but I'm having a good day today so I'm going to relish in it. Your post started out super negative but by the end you seemed to have found some real joy. Good for you
casey.lives Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 It's the men your meeting... if you're doing good or have a promising future you are in danger of running into these low level bottom feeder.. retarded gamer schizophrenic types who want to use you. You be vigilant. Good men lift a woman up.. they cultivate her natural talents and her natural beauty, they give her space to flourish and positive encouragement through example and leadership.. Good men are hard to find. Enjoy the upswing.. 2
SammySammy Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Good for you. If only more people would understand they can be happy without a relationship .... 2
casey.lives Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Relationships can be amazing to bad most people are weak minded.. small minded.. insecure.. vain... self centered... self interested moochers. All they think about is what's in it for them!!!!
kilgore Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Relationships can be amazing to bad most people are weak minded.. small minded.. insecure.. vain... self centered... self interested moochers You're not really selling it
casey.lives Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Men are calculating.. i guess we all are... just keep your wits about you. Love is a mirage. It's only able to exist if you see what they want you to see.. keep drinking the kool aid or let them "think" you're drinking the kool aid. That's what MOST women do.... submission is control
casey.lives Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 If you do get a unicorn ---------- hehehe ----- i got nothing .lol
casey.lives Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 the reason why women are supposed to get with a strong protective men is because that's a women needs.... stay focused on your womanly needs : STRONG + PROTECTIVE MAN .... not pretty sweet talker.. not high flying spend rent in a night.... not mommy's codependent crutch.... not forever high school mentally retarded my glory days- my glory days sing song stuck on replay record "dude" STAY FOCUSED, your womanly needs : STRONG + PROTECTIVE MAN 1
Glass Hut Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Maybe you are satisfied with the sex you've had so you don't feel a need to desperately find someone. I think men have a harder time with that.
xxoo Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Do you see the red flags when you are beginning to get involved with a man? If so, do you heed them, or attach to him regardless? 1
mystikmind2005 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 the reason why women are supposed to get with a strong protective men is because that's a women needs.... stay focused on your womanly needs : STRONG + PROTECTIVE MAN .... not pretty sweet talker.. not high flying spend rent in a night.... not mommy's codependent crutch.... not forever high school mentally retarded my glory days- my glory days sing song stuck on replay record "dude" STAY FOCUSED, your womanly needs : STRONG + PROTECTIVE MAN I don't know, perhaps wait for genetic engineering?? Men at the moment are only human, and full of imperfection - certainly some are more imperfect than others tho!
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