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Poll for the guys - the trouble with asking for phone numbers


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Girls are allowed to be grey/vague... it's their way.

 

As a guy, I'd far prefer clear "yes" or "no" signals, of course. I definitely think it's stupid and rude to give a number when you don't want the guy to call.

 

But it's ok to give a number in a vague way when you just want something friendly or when you're not sure - guys shouldn't invest too much significance in a simple phone number. And I once ended up with a girl who gave me her phone number thinking "friends only", then changed her mind when we met for lunch. How silly would she have looked if she had said "but don't use my number to date me"?

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Reluctant Romeo...Have you ever been to europe? All guys I know that have understand what I am talking about regarding european girls. Sorry, it's not just me. But, once I do meet them they strike me as more mature and confident for their age vs. american women. This is why most european guys aren't that impressed with american girls.

 

And as sweet as kooky is, she'll never understand what people are getting at here...even if you spell it out for her a million times. I mean, I just don't bother reading her replies anymore 'cause she obviously doesn't really read and try to understand anyone elses.

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Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo

Hey! Be nice. Kooky is sweet - even when we don't agree with her.

:bunny::)

 

I don't care if you agree with me or not as long as you do what I tell you. :p

 

Browneyes22, I don't understand what you want either. And you're getting worked up about nothing.

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Originally posted by browneyes22

Reluctant Romeo...Have you ever been to europe?

 

I've not lived anywhere else - four European countries have been my home. And there are only a couple of countries left from which I haven't dated a woman :laugh:

 

But, once I do meet them they strike me as more mature and confident for their age vs. american women. This is why most european guys aren't that impressed with american girls.

 

There are actually a couple of American girls that have impressed me, but I don't think they were that typical. For a start, they've made their homes here.

 

And as sweet as kooky is, she'll never understand what people are getting at here...even if you spell it out for her a million times. I mean, I just don't bother reading her replies anymore 'cause she obviously doesn't really read and try to understand anyone elses.

 

Yeah, I don't really know what's going on there. But she's sweet :love:

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Originally posted by kooky

:bunny::)

 

I don't care if you agree with me or not as long as you do what I tell you. :p

 

Now I'm definitely coming over and smacking you. Give me your phone number and address, please :laugh:

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Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo

Now I'm definitely coming over and smacking you. Give me your phone number and address, please :laugh:

NO. [color=#FF99FF]Whoooohoooo[/color], I said it. :bunny: NOOOOOO. Are you happy now? :)

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Originally posted by kooky

NO. [color=#FF99FF]Whoooohoooo[/color], I said it. :bunny: NOOOOOO. Are you happy now? :)

 

Now I'm gonna hang around, pester you and generally be annoying :p

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