One_Made_of_Silver Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I've been talking on the phone with this girl I met online. She's very cute and we seem to have a lot in common. I asked if she'd like to meet Friday night. She said she'd love to, but is busy working late (some type of emergency hotline job). When I asked if there was another night that worked for her, she said she wasn't sure and that she's busy with work and school this week. She said she will have free time next week, but won't know exactly when until she gets her new work schedule next week. So I just left it at that and didn't ask her again. Do I keep talking to her on the phone, or should I and assume from this she's just not that interested and move on?
SwordofFlame Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 When she gets her new schedule and still doesn't give you a time and date...move on. 4
d0nnivain Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I'd give it one more shot when she gets her new schedule. If she won't commit to a meeting, you need to move on. 3
phineas Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 hit her up every few days until she gets her schedule. No sense in spending time texting someone if you may never meet and if she's interested she won't need to hear from you daily. Normally I set first meets a few days in advance only. Any longer & it NEVER happens. They either go dark on me or flake last minute. A week is a long time when guys are sending her messages daily.
xcupid Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 So far she has expressed interest but she has conflicts in her schedule. Once she has her new schedule you'll know whether or not she's interested.
Author One_Made_of_Silver Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 Thanks for the suggestions. I'd like to take her at her word, but since I've talked to girls online who for some reason just wanted to talk endlessly without ever meeting, I'm just a little suspicious. I'll see what happens with her schedule.
smackie9 Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 She sounds interested BUT is this the type of person you want to date in the first place?? that has a challenging schedule???
Author One_Made_of_Silver Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 She sounds interested BUT is this the type of person you want to date in the first place?? that has a challenging schedule??? Maybe. But the last girl I met online turned out to be unemployed and had dropped out of her masters program. So at least this one has something going for her.
kendahke Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Can you skype with her to make sure she's who she says she is? Make sure you're not dealing with a catfish. I would ease up on the amount of texting--not stop, but not be quite so available until next week when she has her schedule and then call to make the plans. If she still puts you off, then I'd leave her alone. She doesn't have time in her schedule to make time for you. Nothing blooms from neglect.
fitnessfan365 Posted October 28, 2015 Posted October 28, 2015 Shoot her a text to leave the ball in her court that re-enforces meeting - "Great call last night! When your new schedule comes in, hit me up and we'll make plans for next week." After that, let her get back to you and don't reach out again. If she's truly interested, she'll follow through on what she said and fill you in on her new schedule. If you don't hear from her again she wasn't serious about meeting in the first place. 2
Author One_Made_of_Silver Posted November 3, 2015 Author Posted November 3, 2015 Shoot her a text to leave the ball in her court that re-enforces meeting - "Great call last night! When your new schedule comes in, hit me up and we'll make plans for next week." After that, let her get back to you and don't reach out again. If she's truly interested, she'll follow through on what she said and fill you in on her new schedule. If you don't hear from her again she wasn't serious about meeting in the first place. I did as you suggested, but still haven't heard from her. So apparently she was never serious about meeting. Very sad.
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