Breakup due to long distance, keep myself busy but often breakdown crying

[le_20]

To make it short...

 

Breakup a week ago,after visiting him,on the last day before heading to airport,he asked for breakup in the best way he could,gentle and warm,rationally telling me the reality problems we have.

 

He wanted the best for me and didnt want me to take second option as so far,he thought i have made the best decisions in my life and I'm heading to my dreams. (I once suggested to go to his country even though my major isnt popular there)

 

I also wanted the best for him,that's why i respect his decision as he once lived in my country, he doesnt speak language of my country,had very little friends here and wasnt happy,so he said although he wish to but probably is not going back to my country.

 

Whole this week,I kept myself busy and still do, i also organized halloween party with friends,but while i working alone in my room,even though I'm extremely busy and tired, I still miss him and often break down crying.

 

He did say anything can happen in the future.....he didnt message me after that but still check up on me on facebook, i did message him once,he replied me in polite/friendly way.

 

I love him,miss him and all I want now is his hug...in reality, I act as usual, confident ,independent,cool....the real is...I'm really hurt and cant stop crying

Edited October 27, 2015 by le_20

[DirtyBerty]

It's only been a week and although I know days and weeks can feel like they're a looooong time, it will take longer for you to start to feel better.

 

Keep doing what you're doing, keep busy, exercise and start new hobbies. You'll start to feel better but it might be slow progress.

 

Don't worry though you will get past this. Everyone does. Just start no contact and you will few better sooner than you think

[keep]

sorry to hear about your situation. i am in a similar situation as in i got dumped. and its a long distance.

at the moment im learning spanish, going gym. keeping myself busy. trying to heal. its tough i know. i am experiencing it. there are moments of peace and moments of panic, like a huge piece of you have been ripped off.

havent contacted for the last 5 days even though i know she will answer my calls and we can go on a long chat. it hurts when i hang up.

so stay strong. if you have frens with whom you can talk about it, it helps. thats what iam doing. i helped a friend while his break up n he is doing the same to me too. just talking about it helps.

 

i am hoping to win her back. i dunno if i will be successful but first i need a bit of time to heal myself and give her space. sent a letter too should reach in 3 weeks.

 

stay strong. i know at the moment its difficult but it will pass with time. i've been there.