I can't stop thinking about him even tho we never met in person?

[Mizz Layta]

I was talking to this guy that I met over a month ago.I was getting the impression that he just wanted to hook up since he brought up sex in our first conversation.He also wanted to come over to my apartment the first time, which i declined.

 

So I told that I'm looking for someone to date and want for real dates.I then ask him if he wants the same thing as me or just a hook up.He never game me a straight answer and went cold after that.I just said screw it as we clearly want different things

 

Well the problem is, its a month and I can't stop thinking about him.We still have each other on Facebook and find myself visiting his page to look at his pics.The thing is, we were in regular contact before I brought up the subject.I feel like I came too strong too soon which scared him off.Maybe I should have went along with and see where it leads? I'm thinking to give him another month of space then approch him again? I just can't get him out of mind

[opalant]

same thing happened to be and it's very obvious that yes, the guy just wanted a hook up seen as he spoke about sex in the first conversation..

 

you need to keep reminding yourself of that and if you'd kept talking and met up you probably would be hurting more than you are now because you both wanted different things

 

i deleted the guy on Facebook after I realised this, you should do the same, maybe even block him so you're not tempted to look at his page, the only reason why you're thinking of him so much is because you're still connected via Facebook, trust me you'll stop thinking about him the less you look at his page

 

move on to the next guy, spending time over worrying about someone you never met and who you only spoke to for a month is silly, you didn't come on too strong, you simply said you wasn't looking for a hook up and wanted to date at some point and he didn't want the same thing, don't waste your time with him