london2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Hi Guys As per my previous posts I am currently in the 5th week of NC after the ex ended things after 6 months. We were continously arguing more than being happy and as a result of being outside of the relationship bubble i realised i missed signs or let things go that normally would have effected me. Im writing them on here instead of an angry email (we are blocked one way or the other on all other comms).. - On our third date a guy she used to be seeing and was messaging during the date (a concert) asked for a naked pic of her. She shared immediately but didnt respond when I wanted her to just politely say I am seeing someone now so he didnt interfere again..funny enough he did message her 3 months later ehen she was visiting home to see if she wanted to 'meet up'... - Another guy she was seeing sent a pic of him being near to her house a few weeks later..she reacted with a little grin before sharing with me and stressing he had never been to hers - then how would he know where she lived?! - Her ex from her longest relationship suddenly started getting back in contact and she would send pics via private facebook message of her family life in her new home with the dogs he used to play with when dating her etc...she didnt see the harm in this and kept it from me until i saw the pic on the phone..he then clearly made a calendar note of when she was visiting home (she did a facebook status 6 months in advance) and then begged to see her when she was there..i didnt have an issue although she had said she had no interest in seeing him although during her stay went to the bar he worked at with friends..she said she didnt know he worked there and she didnt see him... Im not the jealous type of guy and reacted only in a way of saying hey i know you want to be friends with these exes but theyve pushed their luck and we are so new i just want to see how we get on with no interference... Of course now 6 weeks out of the relationship i know i wouldnt havent been happy normally with any of the above so unsure whether i didnt love her enough to care that these things were happening or was just simply blinded by how much i had quickly became fascinated with her and her world... Also upon reflection ive realised that i supported and provided to her a lot more than she did to me but somehow still have bad things missing certain things..i understand thats normal though?!? Very grateful for advice
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