hopelessromantic24 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 What's better if you are using no contact in order to get your ex back. Deactivating your Facebook profile, or letting it be there for the ex to see/check...? Mind you, I can't post how better I've become yet, still in the process.
SammySammy Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 What's better if you are using no contact in order to get your ex back. Deactivating your Facebook profile, or letting it be there for the ex to see/check...? Mind you, I can't post how better I've become yet, still in the process. I don't think that's the purpose of no contact.
mtnbiker3000 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I suggest just binning the whole thing... 99% of it is a waste of time and energy... 1
Author hopelessromantic24 Posted October 27, 2015 Author Posted October 27, 2015 Sorry, I'm a little bit confused, can you all clarify? I am unsure what to do with my Facebook if I want her back.
Blanco Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 (edited) Sorry, I'm a little bit confused, can you all clarify? I am unsure what to do with my Facebook if I want her back. Do what you'd like with it. What these people are trying to say is that the purpose of no contact isn't to trick your ex into coming back. It's to help you get past the relationship and move on. Personally, I deleted and blocked my ex almost immediately. No sense in leaving myself prone to seeing something I do not want to see. edit: read your other thread. Your situation is a mess and you shouldn't worry about trying to get your ex back, because it sounds like she was never over her ex to begin with. Edited October 27, 2015 by Blanco
almond Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Sorry, I'm a little bit confused, can you all clarify? I am unsure what to do with my Facebook if I want her back. It's not going to make a difference. Your partner left you because they no longer want to be with you. You need to believe them and let them go. Move forward. This sort of thinking and game playing is only going to hurt you - your partner probably won't notice either way. You're only holding yourself back now. Find someone that wants you as much as you want them
mtnbiker3000 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I'll clarify. FB = 99% Shyte. 1% an effective way to stay in contact with close friends and family who live far away. IME, it's mostly for weak people who need a lot of external validation and approval, and who want to appear in a certain light that is usually very different than reality...
organizedchaos Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 What's better if you are using no contact in order to get your ex back. There's your first mistake. You don't understand the purpose of NC. Deactivating your Facebook profile, or letting it be there for the ex to see/check...? Mind you, I can't post how better I've become yet, still in the process. Vanishing from their lives is the best way to make them second guess their decision.
basil67 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 What's better if you are using no contact in order to get your ex back. Deactivating your Facebook profile, or letting it be there for the ex to see/check...? Mind you, I can't post how better I've become yet, still in the process. I agree with the others that NC is not designed to get your ex back - it's to help you get over them. As far as what to do with FB, unless she is active on your threads then it's very likely that she's blocked your feeds and won't see what you do with it anyway. Lastly, making yourself a better person probably won't persuade her to come back. When my ex changed after I left, I thought a) the change probably won't stick and b) if it does stick, then he'll be able to move on much more easily and I don't have to feel so bad about it. As it turned out, the change didn't stick.
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