egalew Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Had a two hour conversation with a guy. We've been e-mail back and forth for two weeks. Two days before we're suppose to me, which is tomorrow, he goes MIA. He doesn't have the decency to let me know. Shot and e-mail and say it's not happening. I know that's how people behave, but it be great if some showed an ounce of respect.
OpenBook Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 He's hiding something. Could be married or otherwise committed... or could be gay... or trying to win a bet with his buddies. Whatever it is, it has nothing to do with you. And it's no skin off YOUR nose. Takes nothing away from you. You've just dodged a bullet. Nothing to see here (i.e., him) - move along!! :bunny: 2
SugarLips72 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I doubt he is gay if he was he wouldnt have talked to you to begin with. Chances are he is up to something and not who he has represented himself to be. He could be married, living with someone, or not local. How did you meet him, was it online? If so recommend meeting a couple days after establishing contact. That way no time is wasted. What a dope though. Sorry
xcupid Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Now you know he's not what you're looking for. Chalk it up to experience and move on. It probably won't be the last time that will happen either.
Guyouthere Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Online... weirdos galore. Don't group all men in that. Just because I keep mummies in my closet doesn't mean I am weird. I just need an army ready for the coming zombie apocalypse, and they got my back
smackie9 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 reality; some people are cowards. He prob got back with his ex, or his wife caught him or whatever. A decent guy would have send you a message, this guy isn't decent, he's a dip s hit. 2
Zippy2000 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 He`s probably changed his mind. Its happened to me where I liked a girl and thought I did but then later dont feel it. When I was younger I did ghost but learend from one girl not to do this again and give them closure. Rejecting someone is really hard to do so people disappear of ghost for all sorts of reasons. 1
hippychick3 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 From here forward, don't take anyone seriously until you've met in person. Live your life normally and fully (while dating others) as if this was a stranger. We don't really know someone until we've gone on several dates and that's just the tip of the iceberg. Move on and don't get the least bit invested in someone who you haven't met yet. 3
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