deadelvis Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Just to keep things even... 1. Hot 2. Loyal 3. Honest 4. Never been a hooker, porn star or group sex aficionado. 5. Did I mention hot?
boltam Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 1. Makes good money 2. Intelligent 3. Not religious 4. No significant mental/personality disorders 5. Likes to do physical/outdoor activities 6. Gives BJs and lets me cum in her mouth or elsewhere on her body Sorry couldn't limit it to 6. Actually with your good list it's 11 3
carhill Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 1. First and foremost, lack of mental disease or defect and a drama-limited or drama-free family and social life. Sounds simple, right? Heh. 2. Curiosity about the world and learning 3. Authentically enjoys and values intimacy 4. Doesn't mind the rain 5. Modest lifestyle; lack of pretense 2
HeartDesires Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 1. First and foremost, lack of mental disease or defect and a drama-limited or drama-free family and social life. Sounds simple, right? Heh. 2. Curiosity about the world and learning 3. Authentically enjoys and values intimacy 4. Doesn't mind the rain 5. Modest lifestyle; lack of pretense Even if she is being successfully treated with meds and therapy? 2
mystikmind2005 Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Just 1 rule - she is a woman who is not 'flighty' and will stay and fight for the relationship when difficulties come. I am 43 years old, never in my entire life have i seen such a woman. But i know they exist because i see them posting on this forum all the time, and the lengths they go to too try and save their relationships, so why i can only find quitters i don't know?
Zapbasket Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Just 1 rule - she is a woman who is not 'flighty' and will stay and fight for the relationship when difficulties come. I am 43 years old, never in my entire life have i seen such a woman. But i know they exist because i see them posting on this forum all the time, and the lengths they go to too try and save their relationships, so why i can only find quitters i don't know? I don't know, but WE ARE OUT THERE!!! And as you point out, this board is proof.
techiedino Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 First and most important: caring and understand. I don't need a hot sexy girl (she just needs to be cute to my eyes). I like someone who I can share with and trust.
Haydn Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Can hold her lager Knows a Vindaloo from a Madras Shares her bathroom products Is deliciously ironic Britpop, indie expert... Was it too much to ask? It wasn`t. 1
mike_89 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Well my top 5 would be: 1) Intelligence 2) Looks 3) Not feminist (or mentally challenged) 4) Very physical/intimate/loves hugs 5) Likes sports Seems like looks, dependability and intelligence are mentioned often? 1
CT98 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Can hold her lager Knows a Vindaloo from a Madras Shares her bathroom products Is deliciously ironic Britpop, indie expert... Was it too much to ask? It wasn`t. If you find a woman who can handle listening to The La's on repeat let me know please mate! 1
CT98 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I'd obviously have to be physically attracted to her. Has something going on/more interests than hair, make up & reality TV/celebrity culture. Genuinely caring towards her family & friends. Up for a laugh - doesn't take herself too seriously. The type of girl you could sit in a pub with and just have a right old chuckle even if it was just the two of you. A sex drive equal to mine. There's a few more but these are the first five that spring to mind. 1
carhill Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Even if she is being successfully treated with meds and therapy? Nope, did an eight year stint caregiving for a psychotic and it nearly killed me, besides ruining my marriage, so I'm off the benefit of the doubt for the mentally ill for the rest of my life. That's why that item was number one. I can deal with medicated mental illness in friends, and do, but not with a legal partner. Not going to happen. 2
ManyDissapoint Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1. Attractive enough for me to stop lusting after other women. 2. Nurturing personality. Likes to give massages, and provide meals for me. 3. Enjoys banter / Wordplay. Rarely run out of stuff to say. Capable of establishing internal communication (inside jokes) 4. Loyal (I am a horrible judge at this), persistent. 5. Not materialistic.
SwordofFlame Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1) High libido. Very physically affectionate. 2) Physically fit and cute. 3) Open minded. (ex. likes to try new things) 4) Nice, caring personality 5) Slightly clingy 1
HeartDesires Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Nope, did an eight year stint caregiving for a psychotic and it nearly killed me, besides ruining my marriage, so I'm off the benefit of the doubt for the mentally ill for the rest of my life. That's why that item was number one. I can deal with medicated mental illness in friends, and do, but not with a legal partner. Not going to happen. The thread title is "Top 5 things you look for in a woman", not top 5 things you look for in a "legal partner". I'm saying a woman can appear normal and fully functioning while being successfully treated for a mental illness. For example, if the disorder is depression meds and therapy have been proven in many cases to alleviate the symptoms. It's entirely possible a woman like I've described above could become your love interest if you were unaware of her medical history. 1
MightyPen Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1. Makes good money 2. Intelligent 3. Not religious 4. No significant mental/personality disorders 5. Likes to do physical/outdoor activities 6. Gives BJs and lets me cum in her mouth or elsewhere on her body Sorry couldn't limit it to 6. Actually with your good list it's 11 Damn Boltam, we think alike...mine is just slightly different... 1) intelligent (smarter than me is unrealistic, but fine if it happens) 2) not religious in any way, shape or form! 3) she must be "pretty normal." Odd little quirks are endearing but nothing that makes you go "Whoa!" So basically she's responsible with her sh*t together. 4) funny - this goes with intelligent most of the time. 5) "cute" or above. I think using a number scale is sort of degrading, so I won't use that, but if she's "cute," then the intelligence, secular outlook, sanity and humor will skyrocket her to "freakin' hot" in my eyes. 1
Author deadelvis Posted October 27, 2015 Author Posted October 27, 2015 The thread title is "Top 5 things you look for in a woman", not top 5 things you look for in a "legal partner". I'm saying a woman can appear normal and fully functioning while being successfully treated for a mental illness. For example, if the disorder is depression meds and therapy have been proven in many cases to alleviate the symptoms. It's entirely possible a woman like I've described above could become your love interest if you were unaware of her medical history. Not to derail the thread, but I actually agree. A little cray cray keeps things interesting.
bachdude Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I wonder the age of the guys who put "hot" at the top of the list. Hot only takes you so far, fellas. As you get used to the "hot looks" of the other person, it wears off anyway. And if you need "hot" to stay interested, good luck when your women hits middle age. If you can't get passed that, I suggest holding off on marriage - you aren't ready. Some guys just need to grow up. 1. Heart of gold 2. Loyal - stands by her man 3. Intelligent/intellectual curiosity 4. Helpful/generous 5. Average looks is fine. This list is born out of my own personal experiences. My priorities have changed with time. 1
MightyPen Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Let me add a 6th one! I like her having a bit of an "edge" physically. Maybe that's a few cool tattoos, or oddly colored/styled hair (I think the shaved side of the head trend is very hot), or crazy jewelry, or some non-conventional piercings. So I want her 'normal/sane' in the brain area but she can put out a funky/weird vibe physically/stylewise. The best of both worlds. 1
Shining One Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1) Intelligence 2) Dedication 3) Believes in true equality (not selective equality) 4) Emotional Stability 5) Attractive (to me)
Snaggletooth Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Honesty. Honour. Humour. Humanity. Heart And a good arse.
thefooloftheyear Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1) Extensions in her hair. 2) Bamboo Earrings ..at least 2 pair. 3) A Fendi Bag.. 4) And a bad attitude.. 5) I tell her come here she says meet me half way.. TFY 1
Imported Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1. Left boob 2. Right boob 3. No nuts! 4. Feminine looking hands (no man hands!!!!) 5. Does not tell me how to drive. 2
boltam Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 1. Left boob 2. Right boob So you wouldn't date a woman who had a single or double mastectomy? I dated and had sex with two of them. One of them wasn't fully reconstructed and had only one nipple (painted on), and lots of scar tissue and it just wasn't good. I tried but couldn't keep it up with her. Pun intended. The second, much better job. She had dark scars like big eyebrows on her reconstructed boobs, which were very nice and shapely and her nipples were reconstructed using labial tissue. That one I could have probably stayed with a while, she disappeared though.
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