fred123 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 When the girl you are dating is into another guy and you know it. She likes his facebook profile pics all of them and when you put a new one up of you on holiday she doesnt like it but he puts one up at the same day and she likes his. They had history. They went on 3 dates a month before she met me. He then went on holiday and didnt text her for 2 weeks so she was annoyed and moved on and lost interest. She told me this while we started to date. She is stubborn girl appareantly she says. Anyway after our second date she told me that he texted her to hang out and she was laughing telling me she would never text back or hang out with him. Yesterday they met for dinner ( 2 weeks after the text). We have been dating a month now. I check his facebook and see she had liked a lot of his profile pics while they were dating and she has only liked one of mine and we have dated longer! She has liked 6 of his pics and still continues to like them even while we have been dating the last month but only liked one of mine. I dont have a problem if she is into him cos she should be with a guy she really likes. But its obvious she aint that into me Link to post Share on other sites
oberkeat Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 First off, who cares if she "likes" his facebook posts? Facebook, social media is just a fantasy world. It takes one second to like something on facebook or twitter. Means nothing. I wouldn't obsess about that part. Second, jealousy is not a good thing to have in a relationship, especially if it's swept under the rug, unaddressed. If you're bothered by her hanging out with her ex, don't make accusations, but calmly communicate to her that it makes you uncomfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Share Posted November 15, 2015 So i just found out that the girl im seeing did more physical stuff with the previous guy she dated. I said i cant believe u travelled 2 hours to see this guy twice! I said u must have been into him. She said ha yh i was until he was a prick. She has neevr asked to meet me even though i live 5 mins awa and is hard setting a time everytime i ask her out. She clearly not that into more compared to the other guy and they only went on 3 dates compared to us going on 6! Why wont girls admit it so us guys can make the decision that shes not into us obviously!! I feel crap. I want her to be like she was with him. I feel like a.mug. she treating me like an idiot. Giving me excuses etc Link to post Share on other sites
python23 Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 Her actions clearly show that she's not as into you as she was with him. Have a think about moving on or st the very least back off and see how she reacts Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 Good lord this is a no brainer....you are just wasting your time. You can't dictate how she feels about you. Get out now! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LilaMarie Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 Actions speak LOUDER than words. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Share Posted November 15, 2015 Yh i just feel like crap. She did say that she didnt want anything serious or to commit etc but im sure she didnt say that stuff to him I feel like the excuses she gives me are bull**** cos she doewnt like me so much. The right guy comes along she likes she will never say that stuff etc Link to post Share on other sites
Author fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Share Posted November 15, 2015 Also am i expecting too much from a girl who doesnt want to commit. In her own words "i enjoy hanging out chatting with you and your company but i dont want anything more with you or anyone. Im focused on my career" she said shes holding back massively cos shee scared of liking liking anyone not just me Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 If I knew a woman pursued a man she thought was hot but she makes me chase her, I lose interest real quick because she clearly just isn't that into me. Link to post Share on other sites
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