Starnette83 Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 If you're having a hard time coping with a breakup, something NORMAL well the only thing I can tell you that actually helps ease the pain is Jesus. Going to church were College students go has helped me feel SO much better, I've put my baggage on God, I've asked him carry me and guide me through this tough time. God has a reason why he puts and takes people out of our life, something we cannot comprehend and therefore we must put our trust on him. So my advice is give your heart to Jesus instead of some guy or girl who has broken your heart, leave that guy or girl up to God, and don't hate them but instead pray for them. I love my ex, or b/f..he havent broken up but hes ignored my calls and it seems like we have broken up, but I leave it up to God and I feel such a relief, yes I think of him, miss him, want him...but i dont feel that BIG ENORMOUS PAIN that i felt, where I felt so lonely, and depressed, instead i feel God has a plan for me, and for my ex. I dont know what it is but he is helping me through this, and hopefully my ex will come to realize what his ignoring has done and come to realization and maybe one day believe in God too.. I had seperated from God when i was with my bf, cuz all my attention was focused on my b/f , HIs needs and wants.,..now its not that way. It sux to not have someone u love close, i miss the hugs, the kisses, the jokes, the watching movies while we lay in bed snuggling, the going out to eat, the play fighting, the random talking, I miss him...I do..but....i cant make myself miserable for something that WAS...
westernxer Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Glad that you found solace in your faith. That's why it's there, for moments like this.
mullins Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 I agree 'god' can help, i used to believe, but now think of him as something else...not bad, just different, but the belief can help whoever it is. i wont say who or what i think he/she is, as this is not the place, and i dont think he/she is listening to me right now, but i am over my X after 3 months of pure pain.....why?.....NC! i now know i deserve better than her, she cant change to be what i think she is worth, she loses, i win.....strenght in oneself, and i have been at the bottom of pain and suffering. 3 days of NC cured me, i know she is not coming back, we now chat as friends, but i keep it simple and tell her to take care, and goodbye....her chance has gone, my girls and me are now number one.
westernxer Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Mullins, I'm glad to see you're doing okay... you sure went through a rough patch a few weeks ago. Keep it up. Your kids will appreciate it.
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