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After a month of NC (I begged her to see sense for a couple of weeks after the break-up but only after she was messaging me about her day, sending videos, saying she is not moving on for ages etc) from a 7-month relationship I found myself this week to be tempted more to break the NC..

 

We are blocked from each others numbers, social media etc and the only way to contact would be via work email.

 

I write down emotions a lot and have not over the past month given into the temptation of messaging or reaching out to her as i know from reading on here it will just feed her ego/goal of feeling i am still desperate for her..

 

I know we are not right for each other - we argued far too much over the smallest things - and there was a clear difference in culture and understanding but still i feel these temptations to break the NC...

 

Is this normal to have ups and downs? Anyone else feel/felt this way??

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After a month of NC (I begged her to see sense for a couple of weeks after the break-up but only after she was messaging me about her day, sending videos, saying she is not moving on for ages etc) from a 7-month relationship I found myself this week to be tempted more to break the NC..

 

We are blocked from each others numbers, social media etc and the only way to contact would be via work email.

 

I write down emotions a lot and have not over the past month given into the temptation of messaging or reaching out to her as i know from reading on here it will just feed her ego/goal of feeling i am still desperate for her..

 

I know we are not right for each other - we argued far too much over the smallest things - and there was a clear difference in culture and understanding but still i feel these temptations to break the NC...

 

Is this normal to have ups and downs? Anyone else feel/felt this way??

 

100% normal. Everyone goes through these up's and down's after a breakup.

 

If you continue to get the urge to send her something, write it up and post it here instead, this way you can get what you want to say off your chest without the negatives of breaking NC.

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After a month of NC (I begged her to see sense for a couple of weeks after the break-up but only after she was messaging me about her day, sending videos, saying she is not moving on for ages etc) from a 7-month relationship I found myself this week to be tempted more to break the NC..

 

We are blocked from each others numbers, social media etc and the only way to contact would be via work email.

 

I write down emotions a lot and have not over the past month given into the temptation of messaging or reaching out to her as i know from reading on here it will just feed her ego/goal of feeling i am still desperate for her..

 

I know we are not right for each other - we argued far too much over the smallest things - and there was a clear difference in culture and understanding but still i feel these temptations to break the NC...

 

Is this normal to have ups and downs? Anyone else feel/felt this way??

 

I'm not a tough ass and I've been through nasty break ups and been down there and I did all the begging, crying, pleading, asking for 2nd 3rd 4th, 100th chance.

 

Coming from a guy who scraped all bottoms and totally sold myself out in the past, your OWN words tells me, everybody reading, and yourself what you truly deserve.

 

This girl isn't it. She's not cutting it for either of you. You deserve a girl that it smooth and easy. Not left and right turns or drama at each other corner. You deserve a woman who you can communicate til your backs fall out at in your 90s. Someone who you can come home to and talk about your day and she's not flipping on her iPhone texting her friends how boring you are.

 

You didn't include that you got dumped, but hey she dumped you and blocked you. She made that choice. She'll either regret it or stick with it. Nothing you can do to persuade her. Besides, she made the choice to get RID of you... that's the most disrespectful thing to someone who someone "cared/loved" at one point.

 

You're no longer worth a nanosecond of HER LIFE. I rather get spat on, literally. Why on earth would you beg for someone that wants to spend less time than she does on her toilet every morning is beyond me. Like I said, I've been there. Just think of YOURSELF and your life and your happiness first. Do you deserve the best? Or someone who has some pros yet cons?

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