Jejangles Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 What was your experience with the guys who had higher match ratings? I have found the higher match ratings to be accurate in terms of our interests and attitudes to things like politics and social issues. But it can't account for chemistry. I went on two dates a couple of weeks ago with a 90% plus match guy. The first date went really well in terms of us finding common views and interests. But the second date was a little boring, I was finding myself turned off in terms of attraction, and we haven't really spoken beyond a couple of text messages since. I went on one date with another 90% plus match guy and while our views correlated, our personalities did not mesh. We haven't spoken since then. I believe the dating coaches who say you do not want to date your exact clone, you want to date the person who best complements you. That takes trial and error and lots of first dates.
Single2007 Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 I have found the higher match ratings to be accurate in terms of our interests and attitudes to things like politics and social issues. But it can't account for chemistry. I went on two dates a couple of weeks ago with a 90% plus match guy. The first date went really well in terms of us finding common views and interests. But the second date was a little boring, I was finding myself turned off in terms of attraction, and we haven't really spoken beyond a couple of text messages since. I went on one date with another 90% plus match guy and while our views correlated, our personalities did not mesh. We haven't spoken since then. I believe the dating coaches who say you do not want to date your exact clone, you want to date the person who best complements you. That takes trial and error and lots of first dates. I met someone who as a 99% match today and we both deleted our profiles.
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