Bordwalker54 Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 I've met a great woman and we've been seeing each other for two months. We've had the "this is an exclusive relationship" discussion and have both agreed we would only see each other. Here's my problem. She refuses to deactivate her profile on the dating app we met on. When I asked her why she was still on it, she said she wanted to keep in touch with a couple of young men, both of them in their late teens (she is in her late 50s), who both lived across the country from here. I asked her to inactivate her account and if she still wanted to talk to her young friends she could set up an email account just for that. She refuses to do it. She won't even post anything in her profile that says I'm not here to date, just to talk to friends. Am I being unreasonable? It's a dating app! A woman that goes on a dating app will be approach again and again because it's a dating app, that's what they're for. I could really use some perspective on this. I feel humiliated. Am I being too sensitive?
Versacehottie Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 No you are right. She should be respectful toward you. And you've even said she can stay in touch with those teen friends, which is more than fair of you. I call bullsh*t.
SugarLips72 Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 I don't think you are over reacting at all. she would rather keep in touch with these kids who don't even live near her whom she probably will never meet than remove the profile and commit to you? Her priorities are a little screwed up.
Amalyn Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 No. You are not out of line by asking her to delete her profile. Why does she want to be exclusive if she is going to keep her profile up? Something is off here...
Candle037 Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Do you think it's very uncomfortable that she talking to late teens?
PegNosePete Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 I'm with you too. If someone I was seeing exclusively was maintaining a profile on a dating site, and even worse communicating with guys she'd met on there, I would be smoke in their mirror. If she's like this after 2 months, how will she be after 2 years?
Phoenician Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 If you met her over an FB page that is a network of friends I would have thought you are unreasonable ; but if u met her over a dating app or even an FB page that is geered to date then you are definitely reasonable ./ Best
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