foxy2013 Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 Last week we were still ok, but I had a major mental breakdown and asked him to block me everywhere. I thought this relationship was beyond repair but deep down I always had hopes. After almost two years of being together, and 6 months of being on and off, I pushed him away. But I came back after 5 days of NC. He was crushed, upset. I thought he didn't love me anymore and wanted to ignore me. Turned out his email didnt get through so I thought he wanted to avoid me. I said a lot of hurtful things to him as a result. Three days ago he was still calling me love name through email. I didn't get that. On Saturday, I was so upset and heartbroken, thought the man I loved for almost two years just left me without saying a word. I said a lot of hurtful things to him through texts. And later on we had a sad phone call to end things. Today I apologised again to him but he said it is over. He said he was too sad to deal with this or be in a relationship with me. What should I do? Should I give him some space and wait for him to contact me? Link to post Share on other sites
loveiswar101 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 Should I give him some space and wait for him to contact me? Exactly that ! Move on and if he wants to reach out he will. For your best interest PLEASE do not contact him until he reaches out. If you chase, plead or beg you will only push him away. It will be hard but best option is NC. Best of luck ! Link to post Share on other sites
Frogwife Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 NC is for people who can't control their actions and reactions - it's like they are either all over the place being insane, angry words, texting non-stop or absolutely blocking everything and all communication because they can't control what they do. Sounds like you need to spend time learning what makes you act/react like you do. "Everything is great, then I have a mental breakdown, blocking him, then coming back, one missed email and you are exploding in anger". No wonder he is done - I would be, too. It's exhausting and unstable. Get thee to a therapist and learn why you react like this - contact or no contact, "giving space" isn't the issue. It's learning how to regulate your emotions and actions. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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