Real36 Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 Met dude on OKC. We had a short lunch date on Monday. Afterwards he asked to see me the following weekend. I accepted. We text through out the week. On Wed he confirmed that we were going out but didn't set a date or time. Friday I ask when and where, he says he has to "play it by ear" for Saturday because his baby sitter is unreliable. We chat a little Friday night then...radio silence. I didn't hear a word from him on Saturday and not a word today. Just went back on to the site and he has deleted his account. WTF? He is a busy guy. Single dad, works full time, goes to school part-time. I totally get that he is very busy, I am too. But why spend so much energy talking with someone and getting to know them just to ghost? He prob is the type of guy that doesn't have time to date but really enjoys the flirting and attention he gets from women on OLD. This sh*t is getting old. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveRefreshed Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 Met dude on OKC. We had a short lunch date on Monday. Afterwards he asked to see me the following weekend. I accepted. We text through out the week. On Wed he confirmed that we were going out but didn't set a date or time. Friday I ask when and where, he says he has to "play it by ear" for Saturday because his baby sitter is unreliable. We chat a little Friday night then...radio silence. I didn't hear a word from him on Saturday and not a word today. Just went back on to the site and he has deleted his account. WTF? He is a busy guy. Single dad, works full time, goes to school part-time. I totally get that he is very busy, I am too. But why spend so much energy talking with someone and getting to know them just to ghost? He prob is the type of guy that doesn't have time to date but really enjoys the flirting and attention he gets from women on OLD. This sh*t is getting old. Are you naïve? He had a better looking date. The end. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Karine26 Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 He's in a Long term relationship. married, found someone better, didn't really delete his account maybe just blocked you? The possibilities are endless. After one date you really know nothing about him so I would just thank your lucky stars you found out he is unreliable sooner rather than later. Yes I feel like I'm over dating at times too, trust me. But all it takes is one "good one" to turn everything around Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Guyouthere Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 He's in a Long term relationship. married, found someone better, didn't really delete his account maybe just blocked you? The possibilities are endless. After one date you really know nothing about him so I would just thank your lucky stars you found out he is unreliable sooner rather than later. Yes I feel like I'm over dating at times too, trust me. But all it takes is one "good one" to turn everything around Good luck! I say we all get together here and have one big dating party, we can all say we had a good time and feed the ducks in the pond too. Bring a loaf of bread Link to post Share on other sites
cookiemonster26 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 Met dude on OKC. We had a short lunch date on Monday. Afterwards he asked to see me the following weekend. I accepted. We text through out the week. On Wed he confirmed that we were going out but didn't set a date or time. Friday I ask when and where, he says he has to "play it by ear" for Saturday because his baby sitter is unreliable. We chat a little Friday night then...radio silence. I didn't hear a word from him on Saturday and not a word today. Just went back on to the site and he has deleted his account. WTF? He is a busy guy. Single dad, works full time, goes to school part-time. I totally get that he is very busy, I am too. But why spend so much energy talking with someone and getting to know them just to ghost? He prob is the type of guy that doesn't have time to date but really enjoys the flirting and attention he gets from women on OLD. This sh*t is getting old. Don't take it personal, this is just online dating. I have had this type of stuff happen to me many times as well. It's not you it's them! The thing we have to remember is with online dating there is all of a sudden access to a platform that we can meet anyone and vice versa, so you are going to find a plethora of people, including flakes liars etc. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 Met dude on OKC. We had a short lunch date on Monday. Afterwards he asked to see me the following weekend. I accepted. We text through out the week. On Wed he confirmed that we were going out but didn't set a date or time. Friday I ask when and where, he says he has to "play it by ear" for Saturday because his baby sitter is unreliable. We chat a little Friday night then...radio silence. I didn't hear a word from him on Saturday and not a word today. Just went back on to the site and he has deleted his account. WTF? He is a busy guy. Single dad, works full time, goes to school part-time. I totally get that he is very busy, I am too. But why spend so much energy talking with someone and getting to know them just to ghost? He prob is the type of guy that doesn't have time to date but really enjoys the flirting and attention he gets from women on OLD. Don't accept it. This sh*t is getting old. Yep, OLD can really suck. Bottom line is this. If he was really into you, you'd have had that second date already and he wouldn't be ignoring you. He deleted his account so he probably has too much going on and it could be with a wife, ex wife, someone else he met before you....who knows. Again, bottom line, if he was into you, he would be all over it. If he decides to contact you again, do your self a favor and ignore. As a matter of fact, just block his number right now and be done. There is no excuse for what he did. If he comes back, it is because he "had" someone else and it didn't work. No excuse for how he has treated you, but that's life in the OLD world. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Real36 Posted October 26, 2015 Author Share Posted October 26, 2015 Oh, its definitely obvious that he isn't in to me. I won't be trying to contact him and if he does text me I'll give him a piece of mind and let it go. Online dating is the worst. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Real36 Posted October 26, 2015 Author Share Posted October 26, 2015 I just permanently deleted OKC. Good riddance 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 Oh, its definitely obvious that he isn't in to me. I won't be trying to contact him and if he does text me I'll give him a piece of mind and let it go. Online dating is the worst. No, you will ignore him. It is the worst thing you could do to someone and has a much worse effect than telling them off. They know what they did, you don't need to tell them. Ignoring him tells him that he is not even worth your angry words. Give your OLD a break for a bit. Not everyone is horrible. I've had decent success, just haven't click with the right one yet. I think you said you were on OC and that is a very flaky site because it is free. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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