OrangeSnack Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 (edited) Hey guys. Just a quick background, i've been with my gf for over 4 months now. Everything is going great. Just a few days ago, we were chatting and she mentioned to me that a friend of hers whom I have met once at his birthday party is still trying to hook (no sexual connotations) her up with a friend of his, despite him knowing that I am her bf. The thing is he didn't directly tell her but told my gfs best friend, whom in return has told my gf about the situation. Though, i'm not too worried and expressed it by laughing, for some reason is still bothering me... Maybe because i'm still a bit insecure about these situations or I'm just overreacting? I think her friend is quite disrespectful to me. I mean I met him before and we chatted on a limited time basis but I feel a bit insulted. What are your thoughts about this situation and how would you react? Edited October 25, 2015 by OrangeSnack
d0nnivain Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 While your GF can't control what somebody else does, she needs to tell her buddy that it's not going to happen & he needs to respect her decision to date you. If she has done that you are in the clear. If she hasn't or won't you may have a problem.
Nikki Sahagin Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 This is very disrespectful of your relationship. Assuming your relationship is monogamous and people know that you are together, no-one should be interfering. Hopefully your gf is taking it in jest and advising them to butt out.
froz Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Yes, your relationship is between you and the other person, not anyone else which is why everyone else should just stay out the way.
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