TheArtist Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 (edited) I've been in a LDR since March with a wonderful lady, but over the past month I've noticed her pulling away. I realised it was me; I'd started getting really clingy and texting far too much, soppy stuff too, and I think it's kind of ruined things. She stopped answering texts and although I spoke to her last week and apologised for being such a clinger, she did say she wasn't sure where she wants to be in her life right now. She is about to start going through a divorce and we really don't see each other anywhere near enough, and I think that's the problem - the lack of physically being together in the same space. We get on amazingly well when we're together but apart I'm pretty weak and I'm fixing that right now. We have agreed to give each other space for a couple of weeks but I'm not terribly hopeful she's going to come back to me. What should I do? Dump her and cut the pain? Or sit in hope? Thanks! Edited October 25, 2015 by TheArtist Clarity
Wewon Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 I would move on with no real hope of getting together. I guess you can call that dumping her. She's going through a lot and there is no guarantee that she will be emotionally available to you anytime soon. Its not fair to yourself to be put on the shelf like this. 1
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