George002000 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Hello everyone, There's this girl I'm really interested in and I'm not sure what she thinks of me. We've known each other quite along time but didn't really start talking until this year, She came round my house a couple weeks back and seemed very comfortable with me. Such as, when we where watching a film she was leaning her head on me and I was stroking her hair (But nothing happened when we shared the bed apart from this) Today I was texting her asking about her and told her I'm interested in her, and she said "I do like you, but you know not in that way" following with the message "I'm seeing someone already." Does this mean I've got no chance with her? As in February next year we're going on 1 week holiday sharing the same room ect, do you think I should try and make a more and if so how? Thanks for reading.
Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Hello everyone, There's this girl I'm really interested in and I'm not sure what she thinks of me. We've known each other quite along time but didn't really start talking until this year, She came round my house a couple weeks back and seemed very comfortable with me. Such as, when we where watching a film she was leaning her head on me and I was stroking her hair (But nothing happened when we shared the bed apart from this) Today I was texting her asking about her and told her I'm interested in her, and she said "I do like you, but you know not in that way" following with the message "I'm seeing someone already." Does this mean I've got no chance with her? As in February next year we're going on 1 week holiday sharing the same room ect, do you think I should try and make a more and if so how? Thanks for reading. She already told you she didn't like you in that way. I don't know why you're still wondering. You obviously don't have a chance. Don't do anything stupid like kissing her or talking about your romantic feelings towards her, it'd just make you both uncomfortable and maybe ruin your friendship. 4
ExpatInItaly Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Hello everyone, There's this girl I'm really interested in and I'm not sure what she thinks of me. We've known each other quite along time but didn't really start talking until this year, She came round my house a couple weeks back and seemed very comfortable with me. Such as, when we where watching a film she was leaning her head on me and I was stroking her hair (But nothing happened when we shared the bed apart from this) Today I was texting her asking about her and told her I'm interested in her, and she said "I do like you, but you know not in that way" following with the message "I'm seeing someone already." Does this mean I've got no chance with her? As in February next year we're going on 1 week holiday sharing the same room ect, do you think I should try and make a more and if so how? Thanks for reading. More or less. She told you she doesn't have a romantic interest, and that there's another guy in he r life. Don't bother trying to make a move, because I can nearly guarantee that won't go well for you. Any time I have told a guy I'm not into him that way, I meant it. The last thing I'd have wanted would be for him to try to pursue anyway. Just don't. Write this one off and don't get any more invested.
ScienceGal Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 No, it does not seem as though you have a chance at more than friendship with her. Sorry. Move on, bud. 2
Author George002000 Posted October 25, 2015 Author Posted October 25, 2015 She already told you she didn't like you in that way. I don't know why you're still wondering. You obviously don't have a chance. Don't do anything stupid like kissing her or talking about your romantic feelings towards her, it'd just make you both uncomfortable and maybe ruin your friendship. So does this mean there is no way for me to turn this around? As we're going to be spending a week with each other on holiday.
Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 So does this mean there is no way for me to turn this around? As we're going to be spending a week with each other on holiday. Well, who knows... I have never developed feelings for I guy I didn't feel attracted to at first but maybe you could win her heart Just don't pressure her, be her friend, don't get obsessed with her, date other girls, have fun, and time will show
fitnessfan365 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 She's definitely not interested. But I think she's lying about seeing someone. After all, she was alone w/you in a bed while you stroked her hair. I would've called her out on that myself. Like I said though, definitely do not pursue it any further. Girls that are interested don't flat out say "I don't like you in that way". 1
Siquijor Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 she said "I do like you, but you know not in that way" But still shares a bed with you! Hmmmm!
EricaH329 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Question: I'm not sure what she thinks of me. Answer: "I do like you, but you know not in that way" following with the message "I'm seeing someone already." She may enjoy your company, but she doesn't like you 'in that way'.
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