hugznkisses21 Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 My bf's friend whom we spend quite a bit of time at his place with his gf has ADD quite a temper sna dca be down right mean to his gf. She is my friend too but origionally they are my bf's long time friends. I was there yesterday and they were doing a garden....everytime the gf would ask about the garden (i.e what is was going to look like) cause we were having a hard time pituring the outcome and we were just asking Q's and stuff to understand he would freak and yell at her and threaten her. So by this time i had had it. So i just said to him calm down we are just trying to figure out what your trying to do dont get so pissed. And he started saying how now I am a nag and and all i do is stick up for her....so i was pissed and said well what do u expect you are acting like an ***hole. So he preceeded to be himself and tell me i can leave if i dont like it...infront of my bf and some other friends. So i went inside and my bf came in and said he was sooooo sorry and hugged me and made me feel better and said for me to go to his place and he wouold follow..... Now heres my delima.....i feel bad now.....i guess i should have minded my own business but i dont like the way he talks to her. PLus these are my bf's friends and he is in the middle now. im sure things will blow over but what i wrong.....my bf says he just minds his own business....does that mean he thinks i wrong? He said after i left the friend said sorry for freaking but now what......what if we arent friends anymore....him and my bf see eachoher everyday and im friends with his gf. I know im way too sensitive. Should I apologise for intruding on something between him and his gf?
Moose Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Let him be. If your GF is putting up with it, what can you do? It's not your place to stick up for her. This is her personal battle. If you don't like the way he treats her, don't be around when he is. He'll eventually realize what a prick he's been.
Author hugznkisses21 Posted May 23, 2005 Author Posted May 23, 2005 do i apologise....? Im not the type of person that can lets things go so easily...i am still a bit hurt and confussed as to whether i was in the wrong and look like a b*tch or if this should just all blow over cause he was in the wrong
Moose Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Why should you apologize, he was being a prick. You spoke your mind. Never apologize for speaking truths. Who cares what he thinks about you? I know it's hard for some to get over what others think about them, but this hurts people more than not caring.
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