stillafool Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Well I found out what is going on. We had plans for Wednesday that she initiated twice. Wednesday am I ask her what time is good. Takes her a while to reply. Then she says "everyone at work is sick. I might be getting sick. Let's keep in touch throughout the day" So I was irritated and told her. Turns out she was in a 3 yr relationship with a drug user. They have been broken up since march. The guy used to hit her, steal her money, wouldn't work etc. So she works two jobs to pay his bills as well. She also buys him groceries. She feels he will die if she totally leaves. She said she won't and can't abandon him. To me it is liked she is being pimped out and manipulated. Leave her alone. She's in love with this loser and you don't need to get involved. He might be violent towards you if he finds out you are sexing his girl.
Gaeta Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 Well I found out what is going on. We had plans for Wednesday that she initiated twice. Wednesday am I ask her what time is good. Takes her a while to reply. Then she says "everyone at work is sick. I might be getting sick. Let's keep in touch throughout the day" So I was irritated and told her. Turns out she was in a 3 yr relationship with a drug user. They have been broken up since march. The guy used to hit her, steal her money, wouldn't work etc. So she works two jobs to pay his bills as well. She also buys him groceries. She feels he will die if she totally leaves. She said she won't and can't abandon him. To me it is liked she is being pimped out and manipulated. Wow!! just wow! I am very sorry. You know what you have to do right? This relationship is over, no further contact. 2
Author oregon0011 Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 Wow!! just wow! I am very sorry. You know what you have to do right? This relationship is over, no further contact. Yes. And she was adamant that she will continue to take care of this guy and that it ruined her past relationships. But she doesn't care if it ruins her life. She said if she has one piece of bread and is starving she would give it to him.
stillafool Posted October 29, 2015 Posted October 29, 2015 So why does she go around getting into relationships with other men when she already has a man?
Author oregon0011 Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 So why does she go around getting into relationships with other men when she already has a man? No idea. She claims it is not romantic but she can't abandon him. She pays for his car, his rent, his insurance, food etc.
Author oregon0011 Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 No she has her own place. They used to live together and she still pays his bills
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