boyfriend told me my dad deserved to die...

[Lois_Griffin]

This psychotic loser will be on the news one day for opening fire in the local McDonald's and killing 12 people.

 

What a disordered cretin.

 

Why in the hell you'd even ENTERTAIN being 'friends' with this lunatic is beyond me.

[GemmaUK]

So sorry to hear of your Dad. ((hugs)). I lost mine 12 years ago too.

 

Don't even think about being this guy's friend, he is no friend to you at all.

Drugs and booze didn't make him this way though, they are just an extra symptom. His personality is the cause.

[introverted1]

So you're still dating him? Ok so me and this dude have been together for almost 2 years.

 

None of this adds up for me.

[Siquijor]

This nasty individual sounds like a right toxic creature - and I wouldn't blame the pot.

[EricaH329]

Is this the same guy that you've been posting about lately? The one who treats you horribly? You said you've broken up with him, but you are referring to him as your boyfriend - I assume you're back together?

 

EDIT: Looking back through your threads - your first thread indicated you were together for 2 months, the next thread 2 years, and this thread a year and a half. This isn't adding up.

 

Regardless....

 

Seriously - why are you with him?!?! What good is coming from this relationship? I haven't heard you say one positive thing about him from the threads you've been creating about him recently.

 

STOP DATING THIS GUY!!!!

 

You've gotta find where you've misplaced your self-respect, and take it back!

[Eighty_nine]

It would serve you very well if you completely removed yourself from being around those types of individuals, and make no mistake about ever be among them again, ever.

 

They are the bad influences out there, and as said, will not only ruin your life, but at some point likely end it as well.

 

I can tell you I saw some 8 or 9 of them over the years end up in the morgue due to various reasons, all instigated by that lifestyle.

 

Well, myself and nearly all of my friends smoked semi regularly in college and still do occasionally. We're all highly educated professionals who'd never behave in such a way. If anything, pot smokers are much more likely to be mellow.

 

This guy is the worst; it's his character, not weed

[Guyouthere]

Well, myself and nearly all of my friends smoked semi regularly in college and still do occasionally. We're all highly educated professionals who'd never behave in such a way. If anything, pot smokers are much more likely to be mellow.

 

This guy is the worst; it's his character, not weed

 

well if works for you, OK.

 

I avoid anyone (male or female) who smokes (pot or even cigs). I am very allergic to anything of the like too.

 

I also don't like to be around drinking. I prefer to have a sober and clear mind at all times.

 

As for the guy,,, yes, you are right on that.

 

I felt bad for telling my last girl "f-you", but seriously,,,, if a guy said what this one did,,,, NO MATTER HOW MAD HE CAN GET, That type of comment goes way beyond just being angry. That is at a whole different and lower level… and severely so.

 

I could never, under any circumstance, ever say something like that.

 

My last girl couldn't forgive me because I hurt her with the F-you, but why should she, she already had the new guy (and she isn't capable of apologizing either, for anything).

 

There are (in my opinion) times people should forgive. My last girl I feel should have forgiven me for that, as much as I did for her, like none else in her life ever did.

 

But then there is a thread like this,,,, that is totally inexcusable given the severity and specifics of someone dying.

[Maxtor]

Your boyfriend is a douche.

 

By the way, never trust someone who is on influence of something, either alchool or pot. I rather talk to a stupid person just because he\she is stupid, than someone who is on drugs.

[Guyouthere]

Your boyfriend is a douche.

 

By the way, never trust someone who is on influence of something, either alchool or pot. I rather talk to a stupid person just because he\she is stupid, than someone who is on drugs.

 

I still won't waste my time with a true idiot. lol

[doulostojc]

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's passing and the hard things that you have been through with your boyfriend. No one should be treated the way that your boyfriend treated you, especially when you were in so much pain dealing with your dad's time at the hospital - it made my heart ache just to read what you wrote. Have you considered seeing a therapist/mental health professional to process what you have been through? I think if you were ever to be in a relationship (even just a friendship) with someone like your boyfriend again, it would be good to learn how to set boundaries and recognize red flags of when to leave an unhealthy relationship. Have you considered joining a church? That is usually a place where you can find a positive and supportive community and start a new leaf in life. My church friends are the ones I turn to when heartaches happen and older ladies at the church mentor me through the difficulties of life and support me through prayer. I will be praying for you! There is always hope.

[Maxtor]

I still won't waste my time with a true idiot. lol

Yeah but you know he is an idiot cause thats what he is, not because of drugs.

[Guyouthere]

Yeah but you know he is an idiot cause thats what he is, not because of drugs.

 

That type of response indicated a deep rooted hatred within him, even demonic.