nathan101 Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Is it ok to just not give a s**t. i mean like completely ignore your ex. like if you see them, if they message you or anything. just like ignore them not even acknowledging them. im asking because this is how i feel, like i want nothing to do with her. she broke up with me, left me and moved on with her life, never even looked back on me. i dont think im at the age of forgive and forget. i wont forgive her and i just want to forget her and im doing an amazing job at it. im just writing this post because theres just a few thinhgs i had to talk about so just thought id vent it here. i truly dont care what she thinks of me or anyone in fact. im just asking you guys because this was my 1st relationship and im now learning and experiiencing from the break up. so is it healthy that im feeling this way.
dumbass2 Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 I'd say it's 100% normal to feel that way, but in time, for yourself, you will forgive. Somethings you probably wont forget and those will help you to learn from this past relationship to improve yourself going into your next one. You will also think back and remember the great times you had and they were real and did happen, it's just at a young age people change and are just learning about relationships and what it takes and also want to explore and see what else is out there. This is the key. Have self awareness and look at yourself in that relationship and look for things that you see now, or probably see clearer weeks and months from now, that you can improve upon. Look at those things and see if they are areas that any woman in a relationship with you would have. We improve and get better with self awareness and it makes us the best partner we can be in our next relationship and improves our odds greatly in having a successful one. Your next relationship may not last as long as you like either, but you learn and grow and take away from each one. Learn from mistakes and don't repeat them. Most us go through a few relationships in our life time. You already learned what not to do right after a break up, which is beg and plead. You never want to do that with anyone in any relationship. It's going to be hard, but try your best to continue to ignore and block her everywhere. It's going to take sometime before you get over a 3 year relationship, so understand that you will go back and forth on your feelings, but just make sure to talk to friends, come on here, but do not contact or reply to her if she does.
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