johnjerod Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I just met this girl sometime this week in my parents house. we havent met since a very long time ( since we were kids) she initiated a conversation with me several times. she asked me questions and we laughed a bit. when she was talking to me she was preening her hair back and forth but that could be because she has a habit of doing so. I felt from her eyes that she is interested but i still had doubts. a friend of mine gave me her number, i prank called her and this was the conversation me : hhhhh it is a prank call her; I knew it is prank call it was obvious who is this? me; I am X a moment of silence she gasped happily her; ahhh why you did this to me hhhhhhhhh why why her is this your number me yes it is me; how are u doing she was really enthuasiatic and happy her; I got a cheap flight to my country for three days this Thursday me; I thought we could hang out on thursady her; mmm my flight is at six o clock, why dont we go tomorrow me; mm i can't her; why you can't you have other commitments me yes I do her no problem we can go out anytime during the week after i come back I texted her during the week and asked her do you want to hang out on Thursday and she sent me message after 1 hour ' ''yeah certainly and I would love to '' i asked if this time is ok then she sent me a reply within 2 minutes "" yes yaaaaay" the date lasted 1 hours ( half and hour in the car and and 1 hour and half in the restaurant). we had lots of fun. at the end of the date I asked for the bill she offered to pay the bill and she insisted. I insisted too and I paid the bill. she was like promise me that next time I will pay the bill. i was like yeah she said no promise me i was like i promise. when we went out she said thank you for the dinner you saved my life. we talked for some time we laughed . when I dropped her home when she went out she said thank you so much and we will meet next week ( she is out of country for 5 days) I asked her out on a second date I sent her this hey crazy girl !! wanna go next sunday to "....." ? she replied after an hour exactly Ok !!! call me after an hour to set the time and everything
smackie9 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 she would have said no if she wasn't interested right?
Author johnjerod Posted October 22, 2015 Author Posted October 22, 2015 even during the movie she was constantly initiating conversation
joseb Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Not sure why : a) You have posted this twice. b) You are posting this question at all, as it's obvious she is.
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 (edited) I texted her 7 hours ago. and I asked her out to go to the beach next week on a third date. I didnt get a reply. she may be running out of credit because something similar happened when I tried to set the time of the second date. when I texted her to go out on a second date she replied after one hour. but when I tried to set the time the next day she didnt reply for 6 hours and I called her she seemed happy and she said that I could not text because I was running out of credit. I tried to call request you but it failed and she seemed eager and not hesitant to meet. when I dropped her home I told her call me when you reach inside she didnt have credit so I called her. I am very confused by this? did she lose interest although she looked very intersted in the second date lost of laughing and smiling. should I call her now or I will look desperate. Edited October 28, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Redacted duplicate paragraphs ~6
Vintage79 Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Yeah - there's some Essence of Neediness I there...just give her some time. Why do you need her to call you the second she gets in her house if you just dropped her off at home? You sound like a control freak...
Versacehottie Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Yeah - there's some Essence of Neediness I there...just give her some time. Why do you need her to call you the second she gets in her house if you just dropped her off at home? You sound like a control freak... you must be picking up on something right. I think he's posted this at least one other time, possibly more. starting new threads.
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 I just wanted to make sure she is safe home. I dropped on the street next to her house. I am not a control freak
d0nnivain Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 It's only been 7 hours. Give her until tomorrow, yes, a full 24 hours. At that point you can call her once. If you get no response to that, give up.
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 so do you think she is not interested?
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 i dunno if I am being overly pessimistic or she just lost interest
d0nnivain Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 you are being overly pessimistic. You can't draw any conclusions when the only fact you know is that you asked her out 7 hours ago. Maybe she's sleeping. Maybe she lost her phone. Maybe she's having these credit issues you speak of. Maybe she is studying. Maybe she just learned something awful & she's processing that info. Calm down.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 I just met this girl sometime this week in my parents house. we haven't met since a very long time ( since we were kids) she initiated a conversation with me several times. she asked me questions and we laughed a bit. when she was talking to me she was preening her hair back and forth but that could be because she has a habit of doing so. I felt from her eyes that she is interested but i still had doubts. a friend of mine gave me her number, i prank called her and this was the conversation me : hhhhh it is a prank call her; I knew it is prank call it was obvious who is this? me; I am X a moment of silence she gasped happily her; ahhh why you did this to me hhhhhhhhh why why her is this your number me yes it is me; how are u doing she was really enthuasiatic and happy her; I got a cheap flight to my country for three days this Thursday me; I thought we could hang out on thursady her; mmm my flight is at six o clock, why dont we go tomorrow me; mm i can't her; why you can't you have other commitments me yes I do her no problem we can go out anytime during the week after i come back I texted her during the week and asked her do you want to hang out on Thursday and she sent me message after 1 hour ' ''yeah certainly and I would love to '' i asked if this time is ok then she sent me a reply within 2 minutes "" yes yaaaaay" the date lasted 1 hours ( half and hour in the car and and 1 hour and half in the restaurant). we had lots of fun. at the end of the date I asked for the bill she offered to pay the bill and she insisted. I insisted too and I paid the bill. she was like promise me that next time I will pay the bill. i was like yeah she said no promise me i was like i promise. when we went out she said thank you for the dinner you saved my life. we talked for some time we laughed. when I dropped her home when she went out she said thank you so much and we will meet next week ( she is out of country for 5 days) I asked her out on a second date I sent her this hey crazy girl !! wanna go next Sunday to "..." ? she replied after an hour exactly Ok !!! call me after an hour to set the time and everything we met another time we laughed alot ( it was 3 hours in a restaurant ) and 2 hours in a movie. ---- ***during advertisement a female celebrity was promoting a product and she asked me do you find her beautiful. and I was like she is not my type. **she was like whats your type then.** I dropped her then she said thank you so much for the dinner and the movie and everything. she didnt mention about meeting up. **** -------- I texted her 7 hours ago. and I asked her out to go to the beach next week on a third date. I didnt get a reply. she may be running out of credit because something similar happened when I tried to set the time of the second date. when I texted her to go out on a second date she replied after one hour. but when I tried to set the time the next day she didnt reply for 6 hours and I called her she seemed happy and she said that I could not text because I was running out of credit. I tried to call request you but it failed and she seemed eager and not hesitant to meet. when I dropped her home I told her call me when you reach inside she didnt have credit so I called her. I am very confused by this? did she lose interest although she looked very intersted in the second date lost of laughing and smiling. should I call her now or I will look desperate. Quote above in asterisk -- when she asked you what IS your type, what did you say, how did you respond? You didn't say ...all you said was you just dropped her off. She may be feeling insecure ...like she doesn't think she's your type....depending on how you answered her question of course.....
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 I said I want her to be laughing all the time she said look at her she is laughing. then I said I should be physically attracted to the girl I like. I said the girl I like doesnt have to be a top model but physical attraction is important and there should be chemistry. I am not really sure but the celebrity that she showed me kinda looks like her but again I am not really sure
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 Quote above in asterisk -- when she asked you what IS your type, what did you say, how did you respond? You didn't say ...all you said was you just dropped her off. She may be feeling insecure ...like she doesn't think she's your type....depending on how you answered her question of course..... I said I want her to be laughing all the time she said look at her she is laughing. then I said I should be physically attracted to the girl I like. I said the girl I like doesnt have to be a top model but physical attraction is important and there should be chemistry. I am not really sure but the celebrity that she showed me kinda looks like her but again I am not really sure
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 (edited) I said I want her to be laughing all the time she said look at her she is laughing. then I said I should be physically attracted to the girl I like. I said the girl I like doesnt have to be a top model but physical attraction is important and there should be chemistry. I am not really sure but the celebrity that she showed me kinda looks like her but again I am not really sure While honest, probably not the best response... sounds like she was looking for some small indication that you were attracted to HER (specifically)... that SHE is your type. To the contrary, you told her a celebrity who resembles her is NOT your type! We are drawn and attracted to people who make us feel good about ourselves, your response may have made her feel like crap, quite frankly. I don't blame her for not responding, I wouldn't either. Edited October 24, 2015 by katiegrl
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 While honest, probably not the best response... sounds like she was looking for some small indication that you were attracted to HER (specifically)... that SHE is your type. To the contrary, you told her a celebrity who resembles her is NOT your type! We are drawn and attracted to people who make us feel good about ourselves, your response may have made her feel like crap, quite frankly. I don't blame her for not responding, I wouldn't either. how can I rectify this ?
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 how can I rectify this ? Give it a couple of days, and ask her out again. If she accepts, let her know you are attracted to her. Give her a compliment or two. Tbh, you sound quite cocky. Personally, I love that, but many women don't know how to interpret it and feel insecure. You may come off as somewhat "playerish" too, although that is not your intention. Which may have turned her off. Just speculating though, call in a few days and ask her out again. If she doesn't respond, or says no, then move on. That's all you can do....
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 Give it a couple of days, and ask her out again. If she accepts, let her know you are attracted to her. Give her a compliment or two. Tbh, you sound quite cocky. Personally, I love that, but many women don't know how to interpret it and feel insecure. You may come off as somewhat "playerish" too, although that is not your intention. Which may have turned her off. Just speculating though, call in a few days and ask her out again. If she doesn't respond, or says no, then move on. That's all you can do.... I called her she has a very terrible flue and I was like how are you feeling now she was like very bad i was like I should leave you now to take rest she was like "noooo you can still talk". I told her about the message she said yes I got and how many times I told you if you want to say something to me just call me. My eternal problem is having no credit and she was laughing a bit I didnt get anything from that message i told her do you wanna go to the beach on saturda she was like yes we o on Saturday if I am fully recovered and then I ended the conversation. so do you think she is interested?
Author johnjerod Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 you are being overly pessimistic. You can't draw any conclusions when the only fact you know is that you asked her out 7 hours ago. Maybe she's sleeping. Maybe she lost her phone. Maybe she's having these credit issues you speak of. Maybe she is studying. Maybe she just learned something awful & she's processing that info. Calm down. I called her she has a very terrible flue and I was like how are you feeling now she was like very bad i was like I should leave you now to take rest she was like "noooo you can still talk". I told her about the message she said yes I got and how many times I told you if you want to say something to me just call me. My eternal problem is having no credit and she was laughing a bit I didnt get anything from that message i told her do you wanna go to the beach on saturda she was like yes we o on Saturday if I am fully recovered and then I ended the conversation. so do you think she is interested?
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 I called her she has a very terrible flue and I was like how are you feeling now she was like very bad i was like I should leave you now to take rest she was like "noooo you can still talk". I told her about the message she said yes I got and how many times I told you if you want to say something to me just call me. My eternal problem is having no credit and she was laughing a bit I didnt get anything from that message i told her do you wanna go to the beach on saturda she was like yes we o on Saturday if I am fully recovered and then I ended the conversation. so do you think she is interested? Yes it sounds to me like she is very interested. When she feels better, go to the beach, go swimming, splash water on her and then kiss her gently. Take her face in your hands and say "you're beautiful." She will melt! Why you so insecure with her?
d0nnivain Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 I called her she has a very terrible flue and I was like how are you feeling now she was like very bad i was like I should leave you now to take rest she was like "noooo you can still talk". so do you think she is interested? I am just getting over the flu. You know what I was interested in? -- sleep & getting better. In contrast this girl actually wanted to talk to you! She must really like you. Yes, I think she's interested. Now be a good guy. Send her a snail mail get well card & leave her the heck alone to get well. She can't go to the beach with you if she is still sick.
Author johnjerod Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 I just met this girl sometime this week in my parents house. we haven't met since a very long time ( since we were kids) she initiated a conversation with me several times. she asked me questions and we laughed a bit. when she was talking to me she was preening her hair back and forth but that could be because she has a habit of doing so. I felt from her eyes that she is interested but i still had doubts. a friend of mine gave me her number, i prank called her and this was the conversation me : hhhhh it is a prank call her; I knew it is prank call it was obvious who is this? me; I am X a moment of silence she gasped happily her; ahhh why you did this to me hhhhhhhhh why why her is this your number me yes it is me; how are u doing she was really enthuasiatic and happy her; I got a cheap flight to my country for three days this Thursday me; I thought we could hang out on thursady her; mmm my flight is at six o clock, why dont we go tomorrow me; mm i can't her; why you can't you have other commitments me yes I do her no problem we can go out anytime during the week after i come back I texted her during the week and asked her do you want to hang out on Thursday and she sent me message after 1 hour ' ''yeah certainly and I would love to '' i asked if this time is ok then she sent me a reply within 2 minutes "" yes yaaaaay" the date lasted 1 hours ( half and hour in the car and and 1 hour and half in the restaurant). we had lots of fun. at the end of the date I asked for the bill she offered to pay the bill and she insisted. I insisted too and I paid the bill. she was like promise me that next time I will pay the bill. i was like yeah she said no promise me i was like i promise. when we went out she said thank you for the dinner you saved my life. we talked for some time we laughed. when I dropped her home when she went out she said thank you so much and we will meet next week ( she is out of country for 5 days) I asked her out on a second date I sent her this hey crazy girl !! wanna go next Sunday to "..." ? she replied after an hour exactly Ok !!! call me after an hour to set the time and everything we met another time we laughed alot ( it was 3 hours in a restaurant ) and 2 hours in a movie. during advertisement a female celebrity was promoting a product and she asked me do you find her beautiful. and I was like she is not my type. she was like whats your type then. I dropped her then she said thank you so much for the dinner and the movie and everything. she didnt mention about meeting up. I texted her 7 hours ago. and I asked her out to go to the beach next week on a third date. I didnt get a reply. she may be running out of credit because something similar happened when I tried to set the time of the second date. when I texted her to go out on a second date she replied after one hour. but when I tried to set the time the next day she didnt reply for 6 hours and I called her she seemed happy and she said that I could not text because I was running out of credit. I tried to call request you but it failed and she seemed eager and not hesitant to meet. when I dropped her home I told her call me when you reach inside she didnt have credit so I called her. I called her she has a very terrible flue and I was like how are you feeling now she was like very bad i was like I should leave you now to take rest she was like "noooo you can still talk". I told her about the message she said yes I got and how many times I told you if you want to say something to me just call me. My eternal problem is having no credit and she was laughing a bit I didnt get anything from that message i told her do you wanna go to the beach on saturda she was like yes we o on Saturday if I am fully recovered and then I ended the conversation. I called 2 days later to check up on her she replied and I asked her how is she and I asked her if we are on for saturday and she was like I dont really know it depends how I go in my studies I cant promise . i was like if you want to go out just call me she was like ok I am really frustrated and I want to confess that I like but I fear that she is not interested since I feel she kinda rejected me ?
Author johnjerod Posted October 28, 2015 Author Posted October 28, 2015 I am just getting over the flu. You know what I was interested in? -- sleep & getting better. In contrast this girl actually wanted to talk to you! She must really like you. Yes, I think she's interested. Now be a good guy. Send her a snail mail get well card & leave her the heck alone to get well. She can't go to the beach with you if she is still sick. I called 2 days later to check up on her she replied and I asked her how is she and I asked her if we are on for saturday and she was like I dont really know it depends how I go in my studies I cant promise . i was like if you want to go out just call me she was like ok I am really frustrated and I want to confess that I like but I fear that she is not interested since I feel she kinda rejected me ?
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