Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 At the beginning he was disappointed? That makes no sense. Remember, he has *never* been able to perform sexually, straight from the get go! Even at the beginning when everything else was awesome, he couldn't. That indicates something deeper, that was there before he even met the OP. In any event, let's just agree to disagree. I'm cool with that. Yes, even from the beginning. It can be there from the start. In my case, it was too (with this woman). Subliminal clues, etc. whatever you want to call it, can and do have an effect on performance.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Yes, even from the beginning. It can be there from the start. In my case, it was too (with this woman). Subliminal clues, etc. whatever you want to call it, can and do have an effect on performance. Subliminal clues. Okay, possible.
Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Subliminal clues. Okay, possible. Yes. Well, certainly played a role in what I experienced, and so this guy too might have picked up on "something", and he might not even know what it is. I mean, ****, why else would I not get hard even when I had a naked lady under me? That isn't me. I don't have that issue. Yet something was there in her, even before she spoke, I sensed, and I wasn't myself sexually at that time. it sounds weird, and it is, but truly this does happen.
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Yes. Well, certainly played a role in what I experienced, and so this guy too might have picked up on "something", and he might not even know what it is. I mean, ****, why else would I not get hard even when I had a naked lady under me? That isn't me. I don't have that issue. Yet something was there in her, even before she spoke, I sensed, and I wasn't myself sexually at that time. it sounds weird, and it is, but truly this does happen. Thanks, that is very enlightening actually. You could be right, but we're all just speculating anyway. Heck, the guy could be secretly gay for all we know....lol
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Thanks, that is very enlightening actually. You could be right, but we're all just speculating anyway. Heck, the guy could be secretly gay for all we know....lol he could be actually which actually once again reminds me of what I went through. The girl I was with is actually openly admitted bisexual. And that did come up in conversation after the sex. She told me that she had more feeling for women (at that time anyway) because she blocked her ex in her mind. So I might have picked up on that too. But I believe this proves the point, there can be any number of explanations as to why he couldn't get it on.
Author Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Author Posted October 25, 2015 So many theories here And actually I made everything possible to show him I wasn't with him for his money - I always suggested to share the bill, when he was coming home for dinner I always went to the store to buy everything before he arrived so he wouldn't have to buy anything on his way, we talked a lot. But maybe he sensed there was something, maybe I myself am not realising that I'm materialistic? I have never went out with a men for his money unless he is smart and fun, and yet I find rich men more attractive, as I said, they are mor confident. They are even more confident towards me. For example, since our first date every time we were outside, X always walked close to me, putting his hand at my lower back so it made me feel somehow protected. The other guys I went out it, didn't even dare touch me unless I give them a sign.
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 So many theories here And actually I made everything possible to show him I wasn't with him for his money - I always suggested to share the bill, when he was coming home for dinner I always went to the store to buy everything before he arrived so he wouldn't have to buy anything on his way, we talked a lot. But maybe he sensed there was something, maybe I myself am not realising that I'm materialistic? I have never went out with a men for his money unless he is smart and fun, and yet I find rich men more attractive, as I said, they are mor confident. They are even more confident towards me. For example, since our first date every time we were outside, X always walked close to me, putting his hand at my lower back so it made me feel somehow protected. The other guys I went out it, didn't even dare touch me unless I give them a sign. I have never went out with a men for his money unless he is smart and fun, and yet I find rich men more attractive <------this is your issue. You are conveying it subconsciously. You are ignoring the "better" guys out there because you openly say that you find rich men more attractive. Maybe in your culture there is it like that. Here in the USA it is not. Here in the USA it is almost always the opposite. Here in the USA, many guys with money are the players (It is likely the case there too). I am not what you would consider rich, but I don't need a woman to ask me to hold her or make her feel as you described, it comes natural to me. I am personally very affectionate to a woman, even more so than most guys, and have been told that too. As it sounds now, you seem very much to be headed for a lonely life…. and I say that because you openly admit you want the rich man, and you "want it all". Well, maybe you will find it, but you have limited your options greatly with how you are thinking at this time. You should just keep yourself open to who will love you, not who has what. Until/unless you do that, you will remain in this position you feel. We should PM when you have the ability
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 By the way, I see that you joined last year, so it seems like you just need to post a lot more so that you can become the "established member" with the benefits.
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 By the way, I see that you joined last year, so it seems like you just need to post a lot more so that you can become the "established member" with the benefits. Guy...hun, she's too young for you....
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Guy...hun, she's too young for you.... Would be nice to actually be in contact with someone who is normal for a change. Age is a number. Life is not a number. It comes down to a lot more.
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 (edited) Would be nice to actually be in contact with someone who is normal for a change. Age is a number. Life is not a number. It comes down to a lot more. LOL, first off my comment was made in jest (hence the )... And second, are you the savior type? Cuz your posts indicate you think she's got issues and needs to work on herself before being in a relationship..... (i.e. too materialistic, too into money, flash, etc)... So you want to prove to her "you're" different and special and that she is, in fact, capable of falling for a good, down to earth guy like yourself, right? Okie doke...got it! And hey you're right, age is just a number.... heck it's only 20+ years difference, not to mention she lives halfway around the world ....no biggie .....:bunny: Good luck! Edit: I am going shark and tuna fishing later! Any tips? he he Edited October 25, 2015 by katiegrl 1
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 LOL, first off my comment was made in jest (hence the )... And second, are you the savior type? Cuz your posts indicate you think she's got issues and needs to work on herself before being in a relationship..... (i.e. too materialistic, too into money, flash, etc)... So you want to prove to her "you're" different and special and that she is, in fact, capable of falling for a good, down to earth guy like yourself, right? Okie doke...got it! And hey you're right, age is just a number.... heck it's only 20+ years difference, not to mention she lives halfway around the world ....no biggie .....:bunny: Good luck! Edit: I am going shark and tuna fishing later! Any tips? he he Yes, bring plenty of cans and and have an accomplice on the boat to keep the process going. As for shark fishing,,, use blood and guts. hehehe You ever watch my Youtube videos? Oh, the age difference,,,, still not a real issue for me,,, never was or will be. It still comes down to compatibility at many levels. Like cycling,,,, 29 miles yesterday, goal for today and tonight is 25. I need someone at my level to keep up with things like that. I think it is important to realize that it wasn't the age difference why my last lady didn't work out. It was her personality that kept her from having a normal and loving relationship with me. She had her own very serious issues that would keep her from having a relationship with anyone normal. I realize that now. No, I am not the savior type. I am VERY picky now about who I will invest my time with. I AM going to be very careful about who I attempt to begin any relationship with. I also know a lot more now than before (about hints like narcissism, etc.), so fully know what to watch for (and will). As for who " falls of me", it is only half the equation. And if anyone here (or otherwise) is going to want a relationship with me, its going to begin with them coming to Florida, not me going there. And take it from there. 1
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Hey G, you know I'm just playin with ya, right? It's all good! And thanks for the fishing tips!
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Hey G, you know I'm just playin with ya, right? It's all good! And thanks for the fishing tips! Yes, life goes on Send me some tuna,,,, I like fancy albacore
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 So now I'm going to Florida? Bring sunscreen and some shark boots. You will need them when they come in the boat. hehehe I have the fishing pole.
Author Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Author Posted October 25, 2015 Bring sunscreen and some shark boots. You will need them when they come in the boat. hehehe I have the fishing pole. Sunscreen? Here was 8 degress today. I think I'd love it there I can take my dog with me, right?
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Sunscreen? Here was 8 degress today. I think I'd love it there I can take my dog with me, right? 8 is cold (that translates to our normal temperature in January). Here it is around 26 outside. I will go cycling in shorts today and tonight. hehe What type of dog do you have? I have a toy poodle. She is 7 years old.
Author Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Author Posted October 25, 2015 8 is cold (that translates to our normal temperature in January). Here it is around 26 outside. I will go cycling in shorts today and tonight. hehe What type of dog do you have? I have a toy poodle. She is 7 years old. Toy poddle? I guess they are really popular in the USA. I have never seen one here but I saw many of them when I was in NY and they are really cute. Mine is Labrador. She is 8 years old. Perhaps they could be friends
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Toy poddle? I guess they are really popular in the USA. I have never seen one here but I saw many of them when I was in NY and they are really cute. Mine is Labrador. She is 8 years old. Perhaps they could be friends What is her name? Poodles not so popular here… Labs are popular here though. There is a combination breed out there that is becoming more popular now.,, the "Labradoodle". Both labs and poodles are VERY intelligent. Combining the 2, and we have the next world leader. Holly is on me now as I type. She is black. You have been to New York? There is a lot to see there. Florida has a lot too, especially if you like the outdoors. I live halfway between orlando and Miami, on the east coast.
StBreton Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Please do not post specific personal info on the forum OP. You risk getting suspended.
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Please do not post specific personal info on the forum OP. You risk getting suspended. Noone here has given any details that would qualify as "being specific".
Author Inaa Posted October 25, 2015 Author Posted October 25, 2015 Maybe we should stop our conversation here. I'm trying to become an established member not get suspended :D
Guyouthere Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Maybe we should stop our conversation here. I'm trying to become an established member not get suspended :D I would like to continue talking to you. You seem nice. I like that. We can talk general here, move to PM when you are ready and have the ability.
StBreton Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 ****What is her name? **** Holly is on me now ... I live halfway between orlando and Miami, on the east coast. GoT ...LS discourages posting easily identifiable information on the forum ...names are specific ... the OP might not know what's appropriate here The conversation on this thread has morphed into a personal conversation better for PMing Sounds like a good connection though
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