Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 Fabulous, I am glad you're happy with yourself. That's all that really matters at the end of the day. Good luck! :bunny: I wish you can be happy with yourself as well.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 (edited) I wish you can be happy with yourself as well. No worries guy.....I have actually never been happier. Awesome fiance, planning our wedding in Hawaii next year, love my job, great friends, absolutely no complaints from me except still recovering from a nasty wrist sprain a few weeks back ....ugh. I apologize you took offense to what I wrote....that wasn't my intention. I will stay out of your threads going forward. Take care. Edited October 24, 2015 by katiegrl
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 No worries guy.....I have never been happier. Awesome fiance, planning our wedding in Hawaii next year, love my job, great friends, absolutely no complaints from me except still recovering from a nasty wrist sprain a few weeks back ....ugh. I apologize you took offense to what I wrote....that wasn't my intention. I will stay out of your threads going forward. Take care. I hope your wrist heals. Well, when you knock how I look and say it isn't what most women want,,, it isn't nice, is it? Is it supposed to be a compliment? Not that I care anyway, really. How women perceive me is reflected on how many act towards me, and that is how I described. No worries. I am not with anyone now, and also not caring. As said many times, I know what I have to offer. I would rather take my time and weed through them all. After all, it is just like treasure hunting. Patience and knowledge are the keys. And I have both.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 I hope your wrist heals. Well, when you knock how I look and say it isn't what most women want,,, it isn't nice, is it? Is it supposed to be a compliment? Not that I care anyway, really. How women perceive me is reflected on how many act towards me, and that is how I described. No worries. I am not with anyone now, and also not caring. As said many times, I know what I have to offer. I would rather take my time and weed through them all. After all, it is just like treasure hunting. Patience and knowledge are the keys. And I have both. I understand. And I would *never* have commented on your looks (which for the record was based on your avatar which may or may NOT be a true representation) ...if not for *my opinion* that your post seemed a little self serving to me. Describing how so many women are apparently so hot for you, etc. No one likes to hear that, and I am not alone in thinking that. Again, JMO though ...others may enjoy hearing about it. 1
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 I understand. And I would *never* have commented on your looks (which for the record was based on your avatar which may or may NOT be a true representation) ...if not for *my opinion* that your post seemed a little self serving to me. Describing how so many women are apparently so hot for you, etc. No one likes to hear that, and I am not alone in thinking that. Again, JMO though ...others may enjoy hearing about it. Im posting this because honestly it is all new to me. All of my life I was in (what I thought) were stable relationships, so flirting, etc. and how to respond to it all is not something I truly have experience with, so I seek advice.
pcs13 Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 I read your other threads and it looks like you really have to work on your self-awareness. It's a turn off if a man is overconfident. 1
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 I read your other threads and it looks like you really have to work on your self-awareness. It's a turn off if a man is overconfident. Its a forum. In real life, I am calm and quiet, don't come off as "over confident". I am confident and realize there has to be a balance, and there is.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 (edited) Its a forum. In real life, I am calm and quiet, don't come off as "over confident". I am confident and realize there has to be a balance, and there is. It may be just a forum, but members are still human beings, with the same feelings, emotions and reactions to those you interact with in real life. And no one likes a braggart (i.e over-inflated ego, over-confident), either in real life or on a message board .... which IMO is how you come across sometimes when you start threads like this. I realize now (after reading your last couple posts) you are NOT those things ....and simply learning new ways to interact ..but still, that is how you come across sometimes when you talk about how women are so hot for you...etc. If there were a question in your OP, I might feel differently, but for the life of me, I can't fathom why you would start a thread like this...other than to just boast. That said though, I am inclined now to let it go, in light of your last posts. You were recently hurt deeply, and as you said learning new ways no navigate this process called dating. It's not easy! Hang in there, you're doing okay! And if truth be told, many of your posts to others are quite astute!! It's all good! :bunny: Edited October 24, 2015 by katiegrl
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 It may be just a forum, but members are still human beings, with the same feelings, emotions and reactions to those you interact with in real life. And no one likes a braggart (i.e over-inflated ego, over-confident), either in real life or on a message board .... which IMO is how you come across sometimes when you start threads like this. I realize now (after reading your last couple posts) you are NOT those things ....and simply learning new ways to interact ..but still, that is how you come across sometimes when you talk about how women are so hot for you...etc. If there were a question in your OP, I might feel differently, but for the life of me, I can't fathom why you would start a thread like this...other than to just boast. That said though, I am inclined now to let it go, in light of your last post. You were recently hurt deeply, and as you said learning new ways no navigate this process called dating. It's not easy! Hang in there, you're doing okay! And if truth be told, many of your posts to others are quite astute!! It's all good! :bunny: Come to Florida and I will treat you to a Mcdonalds meal. I have coupons.
katiegrl Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Come to Florida and I will treat you to a Mcdonalds meal. I have coupons. Yum! Haven't had a Big Mac in awhile! On the other hand, maybe just a salad.. Gotta fit into my very form-fitting wedding dress in a few months! ;)
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 Yum! Haven't had a Big Mac in awhile! On the other hand, maybe just a salad.. Gotta fit into my very form-fitting wedding dress in a few months! ;) lets go cycling then. We can hit the Wendys later. hehehe They have good salads. Actually I am out the door now for a 20+ mile route.
Maxtor Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Can someone please lock this thread? If everyone would start a new thread just because someone smiled at them, that would be awesome, dont you think? jeez. 1
Author Guyouthere Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 Can someone please lock this thread? If everyone would start a new thread just because someone smiled at them, that would be awesome, dont you think? jeez. There is no law that says you must read or respond here if you do not choose to do so. May I suggest a Big Mac and fries?
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