Flozfzx Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 Last week my ex used her son to contact me. I wasnt rude to him and replied just said hi and got off the phone with him. Hour later my ex replied and said "sorry to bother you" i ignored it, few hours later she said that she needed to speak to me. I ingored that afterwards a day later she callings me so i wanted to see whats up because i thought it was an emergency (like a death in the family) i picked up the phone and she was crying like crazy. I asked if everything was ok she said no but i miss you terribly, i miss everything about us. I told her shes has a boyfriend she needs to stop. She kept telling me everything we use to do together and how she misses that and loves me how her life is different in a bad way that she wants her old life back and shes sorry shes with another person and doing this for 7 months. I told her i dont believe one word she says because actions are bigger than words she told me she was going to take action from now on to break up with her currect boy friend. I tokd her i cant believe nothing its been so long . Shes been asking me questions about the future she promise me that she'll break up with her current boyfriend before my birthday. Which is in 3weeks She said shes very depress about us. I told she needs to let it be shes been telling me the same story dor 6 months should i go back NC or ?
Firstheartbreaksux Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 I think you said enough and handled it OK. You were correct, words don't mean anything, actions will show you her true intentions.
hopelessromantic24 Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 Last week my ex used her son to contact me. I wasnt rude to him and replied just said hi and got off the phone with him. Hour later my ex replied and said "sorry to bother you" i ignored it, few hours later she said that she needed to speak to me. I ingored that afterwards a day later she callings me so i wanted to see whats up because i thought it was an emergency (like a death in the family) i picked up the phone and she was crying like crazy. I asked if everything was ok she said no but i miss you terribly, i miss everything about us. I told her shes has a boyfriend she needs to stop. She kept telling me everything we use to do together and how she misses that and loves me how her life is different in a bad way that she wants her old life back and shes sorry shes with another person and doing this for 7 months. I told her i dont believe one word she says because actions are bigger than words she told me she was going to take action from now on to break up with her currect boy friend. I tokd her i cant believe nothing its been so long . Shes been asking me questions about the future she promise me that she'll break up with her current boyfriend before my birthday. Which is in 3weeks She said shes very depress about us. I told she needs to let it be shes been telling me the same story dor 6 months should i go back NC or ? You did the right thing. Tell her hit me up when you're single again and we'll go from there. Then drift back. Don't wait. If she's up for it, like you said, it'll happen. Good job man. 1
Author Flozfzx Posted October 23, 2015 Author Posted October 23, 2015 Ive had been texting back and forth but limited. Shes said she just has a fear getting back with me because what we went thru i tokd her if shes going to keep up with the like this she needs to give me space so i can focus on my goals and what i want in life but keep this issue up.
mightycpa Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 If she really wanted you, she'd have broken up with the other guy first, then come calling for you. In finance, what she did is called "hedging". In love, what she did is called "leading you on". You should get rid of her. Tell her that you'll take her back, but only if she gets rid of the kid. After that, you should never hear from her again.
Author Flozfzx Posted October 23, 2015 Author Posted October 23, 2015 We been 1 year broken up and she got with this guy and been with him for 7 months. I want to text her something like this "You said before my birthday you'll break if off its in 2 weeks you know? If it doesnt happen i cant take you back i just cant keep doing this and you'll need to give me space if your not congruent with your word. Or what should i do. ??
Simon Phoenix Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 Ive had been texting back and forth but limited. Shes said she just has a fear getting back with me because what we went thru i tokd her if shes going to keep up with the like this she needs to give me space so i can focus on my goals and what i want in life but keep this issue up. Stop texting her. You've said your piece, that actions speak louder than words, so no more words. Ball is in her court now. Either way, stop texting. 1
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