Guyouthere Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 Was an interesting day today. I had some opportunity to flirt with a customer. While she wasn't someone I likely would have dated, I did "practice" some things. Complimented her twice on her pretty red dress, got close to her, she smiled a lot and was appreciative I gave her the good comments. I had another fine looking younger lady also smile at me a lot, chatted with her some too. I have to say that I am confident it is only a matter of time before I am taken. lol Tonight was different too. I got word that my coworker is in the hospital, so decided to drop in and see her directly after leaving work. She is a nice lady, also familiar with the relationship with that girl you all know about. By the way, she never trusted her. So I went, and she also had another visitor there tonight as well. We sat and talked about things, different subjects. One of the topics included narcissism and BPD, and it turns out the both of them and their one other friend were all victims of it. Her one friend (showed me a pic of her, REALLY pretty), was totally ruined by a Narc/BPD. It just made me realize what I went through, and I understand a lot of it all now, as she was giving me details of her 8 year long experience with someone with a disorder like these. It felt like a support chat, which it was. I am feeling better, realizing that I was most likely used, nothing I can do about it, except move on. And so I am. Ladies, take a number. Im back in the game. lol
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 Yesterday I was waiting in line at my coffee place. The man in front of me noticed me. He kept turning around to look at me. I took all my little courage and spoke to him. He looked surprised and happy I was addressing him. While we chit chat I did my BEST work !! brushing my hair back, standing in a sexy pause with one hip directed at him. NOPE! nothing. He never asked for my number. He's probably gonna go post on a forum how this brunette flirted with him and he's still got it! but what's the used of this back and forth flirting if you don't ask a number? 2
Author Guyouthere Posted October 23, 2015 Author Posted October 23, 2015 Forget asking the number, I would have just picked you up, carried you out the door, brought you home, then we could have climbed Mt. Royal and had a picnic while watching the mothership begin war of the worlds. I have ray guns for protection, so we would be safe. hehehehe
scooby-philly Posted October 23, 2015 Posted October 23, 2015 I agree with Gaeta. I've been on OLD sites 3 separate times now. Each time, I seem to improve my game and also because I've had two relationship between those stints, I'm coming at it with a better understanding of who I am, what I want, and what I'm willing to put up with and what is non-negotiable. That said, I also appreciate women approaching things the same way. However, I would say that I've run into lots of women who are either "too busy", want to play "too hard" to get, or are just too used to getting attention so they've never bothered to really think about what they want. As the saying goes, I'm 34 and wish I knew 10 years ago what I know now. Can't change the past though - can only move forward. Gaeta - I'm very much attuned now to women flirting with me - doesn't happen much, but I'm ready for it! And, I'm also ready to not put up with ****. I just decided not to respond to someone I've gone on two dates with because there's been two big gaps in contact and she can't even bother to talk for 5-10 minutes to explain what she wants while putting me in those gaps in time. I know dating is tough. So is life. I just wish it was easier to spot the people really ready and interested in a relationship versus those who don't have the time and/or personality for it. 2
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