Beaver Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. The first few months our sexual activity was off the charts. Now I understand that it will slack off after the newness wears off. Now it's gotten to where we have sex 1 time every other month. I've tried everything in the book to get her in the mood, but she usually just roles over and goes to bed. She's 28, I'm 25. We've discussed the lack of sexual luster and she doesn't seem to care about my needs or personal feelings. Her usual comment is "I'm just not always in the mood." As of lately it's never. Are there any suggestions out there as to what I could do to rekindle the mojo between us a little more. I love this women very much and this dilema is starting to drive me away. Our lovemaking is enjoyed by both of us, so I know it isn't the lack of enjoyment that's keeping her pants on. Thanks for listening, beaver
Author Beaver Posted May 23, 2005 Author Posted May 23, 2005 It's been a gradual decline in sexual activity, nothing sudden.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 You'll need to find out if this is a normal pattern for her in her relationships, or if it is limited to this relationship. If its limited to just this one, chances are she is withdrawing emotionally. If all of her relationships are characterized by hot and heavy sex in the beginning, followed by a lack of that when the relationship is established - then it could just be how she functions in relationships. There has to be some sort of compromise. You shouldn't have to suffer in a sexually dead relationship, and she shouldn't have to have sex against her will. There has to be a middle ground though, and you'll only be able to find it if you can figure out if this is pattern behavior, or just something unique to this relationship.
baby20christ Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 well?... what can i say about that?... hmm.. i dont think saw if its true that she's just not in the mood that time.. y0u have to try something different.. why dont you go out and feel to her how much you love her.. there so many things to enjoy your company as well.. not just makin' a love.. not all girls want ***... ok?! good luck!!!
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