Situasian Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 I have been dating a girl for the last 4-5 months. We meet online and we caught up with each other a few times before we decided to be come official. Today she told me she wanted to break up as she felt like she wasn't happy with herself and dealing with depression. Basically she was with her ex husband (they are currently getting divorced) for 9 years and married for 4 of those years. They have two children, one has Aspergers and the other one has autism. They have been separated for over 2 years now. She also works fulltime as a teacher also. Anyway we started dating and everything was going well and we were moving along at a fast/reasonable pace so to speak. However i have noticed the last few weeks her distancing herself from me. Obviously i got my answer today when she rung me up and told me she wanted a break. Now i have been the first person she has dated since she broke up with her husband however she has had flings before hand with other guys etc. I've been more than considerate and be a proper gentlemen for her but she tells me she isn't feeling like she is in a good place right now and could be dealing with depression. Now my question is i told her before i hung up on her that i'm always here for her if she ever needed anything but now i've said that i don't know what to do. She said she needs some space so obviously i'll do that but i don't feel heartbroken, just more disappointed because i know if we worked out it could of been fantastic between us. Any suggestions on what my next move should be>
Toodaloo Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Leave her be. She is going through a divorce and that is always a hellish time. She needs her girlfriends not a boyfriend right now. 2
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