london2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Hey Guys, Cut a very long story short I was with someone for 6months and broke up around 7/8 weeks ago now. We had 'threatened' to break up with each other a few times beforehand and on reflection it was the best thing to do. I begged and pleaded for a couple of weeks straight after the break up but only after she had started conversations with me. She would message or even send a video of what she was doing/making general conversation and after a few exchanges I would then write a lengthy message saying why are we talking like this and not together, we should get back together etc etc - the normal stuff!! I went NC on her for the past 4/5 weeks since I realised she was just using my attention/time and had no interest in getting back together. She quickly blocked me on the various social medias and I have done the same to ensure NC remains.. Chasing after her is the wrong thing to do however I can't help but think every so often how on earth can she so easily dismiss us and forget I exist? We had some great experiences, trips and times together including meeting each others parents and travelling abroad and yet it seems I was just used during the relationship as she's completely switched off.. What do you think?
louxor Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Hey Guys, Cut a very long story short I was with someone for 6months and broke up around 7/8 weeks ago now. We had 'threatened' to break up with each other a few times beforehand and on reflection it was the best thing to do. I begged and pleaded for a couple of weeks straight after the break up but only after she had started conversations with me. She would message or even send a video of what she was doing/making general conversation and after a few exchanges I would then write a lengthy message saying why are we talking like this and not together, we should get back together etc etc - the normal stuff!! I went NC on her for the past 4/5 weeks since I realised she was just using my attention/time and had no interest in getting back together. She quickly blocked me on the various social medias and I have done the same to ensure NC remains.. Chasing after her is the wrong thing to do however I can't help but think every so often how on earth can she so easily dismiss us and forget I exist? We had some great experiences, trips and times together including meeting each others parents and travelling abroad and yet it seems I was just used during the relationship as she's completely switched off.. What do you think? You feel used now because it's over. At the time when you were doing all those things it was real, that's just not the case anymore. I highly doubt she's just dismissed you and forgotten about your existence, she just hasn't reached out because she doesn't want you in her life anymore and that's just something you have to learn to accept. It doesn't invalidate all the experiences you had together, all it means is that that time is over now.
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