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I broke up with this girl about a month ago. A month and a few weeks, now. We dated for about 6 months. I have reason to believe I was a rebound.

 

I ended it because she was very flirty with other guys, was hot and cold with me, and had an ongoing emotional affair going on with her ex bf.

 

Now I'm starting to chalk up her bad behavior to her being young. Her positives outweigh her negatives, in my mind. Maybe. I miss her.

 

When I broke up with her I came back the next day and tried to take it back. She told me to stick to my decision. She cried so hard when I broke things off. It surprised me that she cared that much. So, when I asked for her back right away and she told me no, I assumed the roles had reversed, that she had the upper hand, and I should go NC. Started NC right away. It's been like 40 days.

 

I've been seeing other people and so has she. Should I reach out to her, or stay nc?

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I broke up with this girl about a month ago. A month and a few weeks, now. We dated for about 6 months. I have reason to believe I was a rebound.

 

I ended it because she was very flirty with other guys, was hot and cold with me, and had an ongoing emotional affair going on with her ex bf.

 

Now I'm starting to chalk up her bad behavior to her being young. Her positives outweigh her negatives, in my mind. Maybe. I miss her.

 

When I broke up with her I came back the next day and tried to take it back. She told me to stick to my decision. She cried so hard when I broke things off. It surprised me that she cared that much. So, when I asked for her back right away and she told me no, I assumed the roles had reversed, that she had the upper hand, and I should go NC. Started NC right away. It's been like 40 days.

 

I've been seeing other people and so has she. Should I reach out to her, or stay nc?

Sounds like she's still young. Stay NC.
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